Hey kids!
I’ve been learning a lot of stuff from David X and Alan Roger Currie recently as I’ve been doing alot of SPAM interviews with those guys …. and my game is going through a “Direct” phase shift… I’m just becoming more forward with women…. It’s pretty cool! http://www.sashapua.com/directdatingsummit.html

It’s a fucking relief actually just telling girls I want to get in their pants.. instead of hiding that shit hoping to impress them first, then hitting on ‘em later.

What I’m going to tell you is that you will actually get laid MORE by telling women the TRUTH (I.E – that you are there for SEX!)

Yeah, you read that right. Aren’t you guys TIRED of lying/misleading women? I’m not just talking about the outright lies like “Uh, yeah, I make 100k a year” or “I used to date a model”. I’m talking about the one big lie we’re ALL living every day. What am I talking about? I’m talking about all of us men, walking around, talking to women like having sex with them is the last thing on our mind.

You all know what I’m talking about. You’re standing behind some cutie in the grocery store, and you say “Hey, that’s a lot of groceries!” and she says “yeah… we all gotta eat!” … and you say “Yeap”

And then nothing.

You’re at a bus stop…. There’s some cute woman standing around. You say “Do you know how long till the next bus?” …. “Yea, should be here in a few minutes….”
“ah that’s a relief, I thought we’d be out here all day!”

And then nothing.

Or … in any one of a million situations

“Hey, nice day out there isn’t it?”
“yea, it’s beautiful today”
“hope it keeps up!”
“Yup”

COME ON GUYS. YOU DON’T CARE ABOUT THE WEATHER! What you’re really thinking is “God damn, you’re hot as fuck. I’d like to kick those groceries out of your hands and make sweet love to you, right here on this counter!”

Lots of guys are stuck “opening” and then it goes NOWHERE. Because, they’re trying to make conversation in order to build comfort. It’s bullshit. The women know it’s bullshit…. You feel awkward for trying to make up BS small talk. Also, the little voice in your head is saying “You’re full of shit, asshole” as you’re trying to talk to her!

And hey, that’s assuming you’ve taken the step and actually STARTED a conversation. Some of you will just sit around and stare at women. In either case – you know what you REALLY want to say.

You’re thinking you’d like to tell her she’s hot as all hell, and that you’d like to take you out for a drink some time…. But for some reason, you don’t…..

How about this one: You’ve been “Friends” with a woman you’re attracted to for weeks, months, or even years? Are you still hoping to “Get in there?”

You WANT to say….”Hey listen. I think you’re hot. I’d like nothing more than to go to bed with you, and exchange orgasms with you for hours on end."

That’s probably what you’re really thinking. But you never tell ‘em what you’re really thinking – do you?

WHY NOT?

Probably like the vast majority of men, you don’t believe you can be honest and upfront with women about your intentions. You probably think if you came up to a woman and expressed sexual intent, she’d go ape shit. To say something that “Crazy” would result in the woman calling the police, swearing at you, or her trying to kick you in the nuts!

What if I told you the probability of any of those things happening is near ZERO? In reality, nothing could be further from the truth. Women don’t flip out.

In fact – most women are extremely flattered to be approached in this manner. If they have a boyfriend, they often apologize profusely for not being able to go out on a date with you. In either case there are flattered, happy… and more often than not willing to have a bit of a chat.

The vast majority of women are tired of their romantic prospects beating around the bush, making nice, and trying to be their “Friend”.

They are even more tired of their male “Friends” trying to get into their pants!

Do you really think women don’t know what you’re really after in all of those scenario’s? Let’s not underestimate the fairer sex fellas. Women aren’t stupid. In fact, they are much better at figuring out “What’s really going on” than we are.

If you approach a woman directly, and let her know you’re interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with her, there’s only 3 things that can happen. Yes yes… I KNOW - I can hear you all thinking “Ok sure… but WHAT IF SHE REJECTS ME?”

Fine then. Let’s start with …..

THE WORST CASE SCENARIO: Rejection:

So what? Who cares? Does it really matter what some woman you don’t even KNOW thinks? That took 10 seconds of your time. Big deal. Now you know where you stand, and you can move on to the next woman! Even the women that turn you down will appreciate your directness - as it wastes a lot less of their time, as well as a lot less of yours!

Next best scenario… and this is what will happen the vast majority of the time: Women will be interested in chatting to you and getting to know you better. In other words “Maybe….”

From here – just have a chat and see if you’ve got some chemistry going with the woman. Make sure to keep your eye on the prize and never forget that you’re trying to get her to agree to meet up with you at some point in the future. Don’t let yourself veer off to uninteresting small talk. Your conversation should be focused on getting to know her, and figuring out what similarities you’ve got.... but ultimately you should be trying to find out if there’s a “click” or not!

At this point, you can use whatever “Game” works for you. Building comfort, qualifying, blah blah blah. All that stuff. BUT – you’re doing this from a place of strength. You’ve made your intentions clear…. And the conversation is LEADING somewhere – a date between you and her. It’s not going to be a fucking 45 minute conversation that goes NOWHERE!

The best case scenario, of course… is that she agrees to your proposition! Get her number and arrange a time to meet up – or better yet, go on a date with her right there and then! You never know - you might even end up in bed with her that very same night! Hey – some women are not only available – buy horny and sexually promiscuous! Fantastic. If you do get her number, stick around and chat to her a little bit afterwords though, just to make sure you have at least a bit of chemistry. Otherwise you may get stuck on a date with a women you don’t even fancy! I’d say keep the interaction 2-3 mins long MAX if you’re being direct. The more you talk after being direct, the more you fall into the friend zone.

There are several advantages to being up front with women.

• Balls points – as soon as you have the audacity to approach a woman and let her know what your TRUE intentions are – you get MASSIVE points for having the balls to do so. Very few men will approach women in this matter. If you don’t go back to acting like a wuss after your opener – this ALONE can get you laid!

• Women are instantly attracted to you – Most guys aren’t confident enough to approach directly unless they’re really drunk. By going up to a women and saying what you really feel you generate TONS of attraction in most women automatically.

• Stand out from other guys – By approaching directly, you’ll set yourself apart from all the guys who use cheesy pick-up lines or faff around with indirect nonsense. They will remember you – which helps a hell of a lot if you end up exchanging phone numbers.

• No more wasted time - Don’t waste time on women that aren’t interested. The faster you find out she’s not interested, the more time you have to talk to women who ARE interested. Fantastic! -Ever have a 30 minute conversation with a woman you were interested in, only to find out she had a husband/boyfriend? Or maybe she was a lesbian? Or just simply wasn’t interested ? I have – and it’s really annoying! When you let a woman know what you’re after she’s forced to let you know.

• Know what to say next - When you’re up front, you have to worry a lot less bout what to say next. If you know what you want, and THE WOMAN knows what you want – then you’ve always got something to talk about. You, and her, hooking up. You don’t have to worry so much about small talk because you KNOW where the conversation is leading.

So…. Next time you see a gorgeous woman, what should you do?

Tell her exactly what you’re thinking – and what you want! It’s not about any specific lines, as long as your intent is clear. Some random examples:


"Excuse me, you look absolutely amazing. I’d like to get to know you …. when are we hooking up?"

"Damn woman, you are fine! Are you married? No? We should get together sometime. When are you available….?”


Or, if you want to add in a bit of humour you can use one of my classic lines.

Sasha “Excuse me, I believe you owe me an apology!”

Sexy Woman “Oh really? Why?”

Sasha “Because, I saw you and had to come over and tell you how hot you look. I’m running late, and now I’m going to be even later! So you DEFINITELY owe me an apology. Why don’t you give me your number, and you can make it up to me some time. When is good for you?


Or, as Alan Roger Currie would do:

“I think you are very attractive, and very sexy. So … when would you like to share my company (in order to exchange orgasms) … next Friday, or next Saturday?”

* - Comment in parentheses only for ultra-bold, “advanced player” types


Many women will be immediately turned on by you being confident enough to approach them in this manner. By showing that you’re man enough to express your true desires and intentions…. not only will she have more respect for you - she will furthermore appreciate your honesty. She will either tell you she’s not interested, agree to the date, or (in most cases) engage you in a conversation in order to determine whether or not she’s interested.

Either way – you manned up, told the truth, and laid it all out on the line - like a man. And that’s a great place to start!

Good luck, and good hunting!

P.s - Big shoutout and thanks to Alan Roger Currie for teaching how to be Moooooooooooddddddddddeeeeeee one!

Boom!

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How can you argue with being up front and bold?

nice post bro... curious to see what other ppl think of this!

I've always liked the direct approach. Ever since getting into PU and working on my inner game I just started being more direct towards everyone in general. With woman especially, all of the ones that I've met/known have either changed the way they look at me into a more sexual way or have been wanting to fuck me since meeting me. The way I think of it, if you're more confident (with a little cockiness) about yourself and act that way towards a woman and she rejects you. Who cares? That's her loss, not yours. You can find another one within the next minute that WON'T reject you and BAM there you go.

For example, I've known this girl from back in my AFC days for about 3 years now. Since becoming more confident/cocky in my personality she's become more attracted to me, which wasn't there before. I used to try to get her to have sex or even make out with me and I would get that line "Oh I don't see you like that blah blah blah bullshit." When I saw her the other day I mentioned something about making out with her in the restaurant we were in and how the people there probably wouldn't like it. She said she hated the cockiness I was showing...tonight however, she texted me and said "We should make out sometime." BAM. Huge change from before.

It's about having the mentality of the woman needing you more than you needing the woman. There are a million girls out there, all of which are easily replaceable. Move from one to the next, if you get rejected, that's her loss, not yours, it does not matter one fckin bit because you don't know her. People spend too much time worrying about what strangers think. Just Find em, Fuck em, and Fuck em over and over and over. I know I'm semi-new but I've learned in the past month (from NLP and advice from a natural) a whole lot of shit that I wish I knew the past 5 years of my life. Confidence is the key and cockiness is it's best friend. If all you're trying to get from a girl is some sex, then there's no point in bullshit small talk and acting like you want something more out of it. Direct. Direct. Direct. Don't be scared. If you tell them what to do, they will do it. Confidence = more attraction than any game.

I've been reading 60 years of seduction's stuff lately and this is exactly what he's telling you to do. Opening in an indirect way doesn't create tension. By opening with a simple phrase like : "I've wanted to come talk to you because you look fun/interesting" puts tension on the shoulders of your target. She knows that it's not just a normal chit-chat, there's interest going on. She'll want to live up to the fact that "she looks fun/interesting".

Also, girls find it way more attractive than a random opinion opener. If you're too scared to open with the direct opener, just open with an opinion opener than state your intentions. You ask your question, get your answer than tell her that you actually wanted to talk to her because she looks interesting or whatever.

Being direct is always a win (except if you're too much like putting her on a pedestal, that's not what you want). The guy's great, you should read his stuff.

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idk about going that direct i mean thats like going back to the really younger days when everybody thought that corny pick up lines worked. i heard a guy walk up to a girl and say hey is ur name google because ur all i've been searching for. she was kinda freaked out to say the least. those lines and that mind set ur talking about may work on girls with low self esteem or somithing like that but i doubt if high class women would go for stuff like that, i may be wrong though so im not knockin it until i try it

Cobra:Yea dude sounds like you learned some good stuff from that guy! Yea interestingly i'm finding, it's like you get more respect from women when you are direct. You know ? Even if you don't sleep with them, they respect you more. It's nuts. Most guys are just little fucking pussies and women are tired of that shit.

Ask 'em. They're tired.

Lachose: Yea I keep hearin' about 60. Got his ebook here, gonna read it but what i read so far was good

Caylon: Direct isn't about cheesy pickup lines. Where did you get this idea? Going BACK to? Back?? Direct is moving forward. The old routines shit is moving back. Low self esteem ???? No, girls with low self esteem are more likely to freak out because they don't believe you'd be interested in them. High value girls respond well to direct because guys don't have the fucking balls to approach them like this (esp in the daytime) so.... yea dude you should try it out man. It's awesome stuff

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hey sorry if it looked like i was knocking it. im always up for new ideas and i dont like to knock things without trying em but hey i'll defintly give it a try and let ya know how things went

I like the idea of direct approach and will try it !

this stuffs great but you need to be very very confident for it be successfull. not so muh actually approaching but in the way that you carry yourself and your body language.

theres no point doing this if you keep stuttering and staring at the floor.

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U hit some nails right on the head tho.

This post alone boosted my confidence
Great advice.

I feel like saying something to a girl walking down
the street but dont know what I want from her

I want to have that attraction where I am
approached by girls
and they hit on me

Any ideas?

you dont know what you wan from her??? hhhahaha really?? isnt she pretty? why i want a pretty woman? ...... hint: to push my freakin dick inside of her.

Sasha i have done this style of aproach for many years and its just too fun, not for the girls but the feeling that you are in your own american pie/adam sandler movie and you can do anything you want, its just so good i dont really like the currie type of aproach too "boring" for me but i love his philosophy about saying that you like her, you get less problems, more girls, more fun, more parties, etc etc etc just by being you and tell people the truth.

good to see that others know what has worked for me for a long time! I recently stepped out of the game for 8 months to focus on my studies and when I returned I really was a complete novice! I forgot everything i taught myself but luckily some of my friends who i used to do this stuff with helped me back up on my feet.

When i said i became a novice i meant, i lost my balls to go up to a girl and instead decided to approach the friend way. Luckily for me I caught myself and ended up getting the girls number after only talking to her for 5 minutes.

me : well i'll leave you alone then so you can finish your homework
her : ok thanks! talk to you later
me : actually i'm not going to leave you alone. i'm going to be blunt with you. i'm sure that your friend told you i had interest in you.
and to be honest you are pretty cute but i'm sure guys tell you that all the time. so i'm not going to say your cute i'm going to ask you
to go out with me some day to the movies
her : haha oh.. well to be honest i dont know what to say to that but you just met me hahahaha
me : exactly, thats why i want to take you out sometime to get to know you better than what jennifer tells me
her : HAHAHA, what does jennifer tell you??
me : answer me first
her : answer you on what?
me : go to the movies with me
her : um, well i have to think about it. hahaha, i dont really know you thats why..... but idk sorry!
me : well why don't you just slip me your number and give it a shot on the small offchance that we do happen to have a quite interesting conversation
her : haha alright i can do that

her friend jennifer introduced me to her thats why she was mentioned in the conversation. this isn't really that great of an example of how fabulous this technique works because I screwed up a bunch of times.

1. I shouldn't have really mentioned Jennifer

2. We had a pretty awkward "friend talk" in the beginning.

3. This specific girl has 20 guys, freshmans, sophmores, and juniors flirting with her around the clock.

4. Her bestfriend jennifer likes me and told her about it

5. Her 2 other bestfriends were both my ex-girlfriends and told her how much of a player I was. (8 months back)

So good luck guys. This technique is quite wonderful and takes some time to perfect as well.

good stuff man i love mode one
i just want to have some advice on mode one openers. i go like ''i saw you from there and i tought you look amazing and a wanna know you''
is that mode one enough or should i be more direct???