That one would have worked, if there was another guy around.

actuly there were other guys there. damn :/.. keep in mind we are in a hotel room. There were 6 guys and 5 girls. It was her(HB9) and her freind HB7.8 with me in the bedroom. i could of shit tested her but didnt :/..


Any advice on what i should do next time? Or did i mess up completely?

I wouldn't say you messed up completely. I wouldn't sweat it. So you missed one test. Just go with whatever is happening next time.

ic cool. oo one more thing. Should i call her up to go out? Maybe say something like.. "hey im gonna be at the coffee shop, why dont you stop by"..?

DON'T ASK! For instance . . . last night I called a girl I picked up a week or so ago and said "meet me at Hammerheads at xx time". Didn't give her a CHOICE. She said 'ok". And she was there.

ic..thanks alot bro. ..i already knew that i shouldnt ask them or give them the choice. I thought what i wrote just said that but now that i read it again loll it does sound liek im giving her the choice.

thanks for the input. Once last thing. Does it matter where we go? Or jsut a star bucks or something will be fine? And what if she says she is busy should i set up another day or just F*CK it?

It doesn't matter too much where you go, except that it should be some place close to your home, and someplace not expensive. A Starbucks is fine, because you don't want to be in the trap of paying for her dinner or something like that. DON'T go there. In fact, just last night is the FIRST time I paid FOR ANYTHING for this girl I picked up a week and a half ago, and it was just a $3 cover charge to get into the club.

So, don't set the tone of YOU paying for your "date".

And, she COULD be legitamitely busy, so give her another time too, but if she KEEPS blowing you off, then say forget it. Pull it back, and let her know the offerS are off the table. At that point, she's "being bad" and "needs to be punished", IF you understand what that means. In other words, YOU are in control, not her.

cool. I try not to pay for dates as much as i can. But i just found out this weekend when i was at my cusins house that she is either got a new bf or i know she is atleast talking.I dont want to be a bf destroyer, but i know that is an option. At the same time who know they might just be talking and i know its not too late. So im stuck between if i should go still go out or not. Becuase i want to get my game up even higher so i can be ready for anything you know. So what do you think?

LOL, if she is even "talking" to another guy, that means you haven't moved fast enough. If you do want her, then you HAVE to go into b/f destroyer mode, but DO NOTTTTT be needy. You DON'T need her. Get that through your head. You are the prize, not her. It IS however YOUR responsibility to TAKE control of the frame, of your reality, and FLIP her attraction switches. If you fail to flip her attraction switches, and IMMEDIATELY, forget it, she's gone NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO.

i just got trough reading the attraction switches.So i have a pretty good idea. And as far as her goes with a guy, she usulay breaks up with them in the first 2-3 months loll.. I think she gets bored quick. But we'll see what happens. Thanks for you help bro.

" i just got trough reading the attraction switches.So i have a pretty good idea. And as far as her goes with a guy, she usulay breaks up with them in the first 2-3 months loll.. I think she gets bored quick. But we'll see what happens. Thanks for you help bro."


if so, make it less..i think if you really get ALL the attraction switches flipped, shell end it sooner just because you've become more of an interest to her, and that you are the "prize" to her.

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No problem man. And yes, if she does get bored easily, then that's more of a challenge to you. More than likely, she will stay with some guy in her lifetime. The only question is, which guy will keep her interest long enough and intense enough to make that happen? Maybe you don't want to stay with this girl, I don't know, but if you do, you know that you have to keep her interest more than you would for most girls. But, if she really is worth keeping around, then the extra effort on your part will be worth it.

So, basically, have some fun with this and overload her senses with attraction. Trust me, even in the short term, she may end up blowing your mind in bed because you've got her SO attracted.

alright G. im just gona go do my hw a little more on the attraction switches and practice . And as far as she goes. She is worth it in ways. Anyhow if not her then i have someone else in mind as well so its all good. So good luck to you all PUs too.

MStyle, I notice in your first post you had a situation where you were physically close with her, but you had no sexual tension at all. When she said "why don't you lay on my ass", you negged her, but went ahead and did it anyway like a AFC. You should have replied with "why don't you sit on my lap instead" then the ball would have been in your court. You gotta keep things even, she knows she's hot and that's why she tested you to see if you were a slave to that. And you proved her right, so I dunno if you still have a chance, keep it up tho.

i know i did given in but i only did it for like 10sec or so, then i rolled off next to her on the bed to show her that im not desperate and im not afraid to do it either you know. And i dont think i could of told her to sit on my lap, becuase we were laying on the bed.