I've been talking to this chick who happens to be 18 (I'm 26). Called her today and she was very short and rude with me so I ended the convo. After 30 seconds and 30 minutes later she texted saying sorry she wasn't trying to be rude. I havnt responded yet but I need something to say to her to tell her that the type of behavior will not be tolerated but at the same time I don't want to say something that makes think I want to end it. Any ideas?

Tell her it's ok you will just spank her for being naughty.

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Sounds like everything is ok man. If she apologised for being rude then she knows her place. You don't have to do anything like tell her off. Just wait a little while before texting back.

(I'm in a similar situation, I'm 26 and chatting to a 17yr old. Lol. I'm not sure what it is about younger girls, they seem like more work, but hey I love the thrill of the chase!)

Gotta love those young girls! I didn't reply at all, about 5 hrs later she sends me another text saying "her step father was in the room and she couldn't really talk to me" haha I feel like i'm back in high school. I told her it's cool but I still won't tolerate being talked to like that she apologized and everything's cool now. She's still playing a lot of games though too bad she doesn't understand that I will kill her at her games haha Ever feel like the whole interaction with girls is just one big power struggle??

Well.. There's this game called ''the game of games''. This is the game won by the person that initiates the whole process of gaming in the relationship. That person considers playing games to be THEIR game, and when their partner responds with his/her own game, it's considered to be copying.

Honestly, a bit of game in a relationship certainly helps spark things up.. But too much of it messes it up.

The best thing to do imo if she's the one to have started playing the games, is to act (and try to BE) unaffected. This works better than responding with your own games as ''responding'' itself is a - point.

Once the other person realizes it isn't working on you, he/she will stop.. And that is when you seize the opportunity and play the little (and not excessive) games to show that you're just as capable

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I have a situation like this, but instead the girl is 20.

I hate it. Why she doesn't just recognize we like each other and games are over? Power games will only make we get bored and next them.

I found the best responses are when you ignore the games, change topic, and later or another day you use the same game on her.

For example, if she says in a playful way "we're just friends" while it's clear you 2 are doing sex in a few hours, you ignore it and later when she tries to do something like kiss you, you say the same thing with same tonality "we're just friends.".
You'll see the confused look on their face and they'll not know what to do and show the real them. lol

Younger girls just like being chased really haha, Good way to handle it, now she knows who wears the pants which is always a +

Yeah im in the same boat! 17yearold, im 22. Shes playing reallly immature games, which im just putting up with cause ive been doing this a while and I can see she just wants to be chased. She'll blow me off and come up with ridiculous stories as to why she couldnt see me and tries for hours on end to convince me it's the truth, meanwhile i know it isnt.. Any Ideas anyone?

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