Met a girl in starbucks, added her, she messaged me on facebook, sent a few msgs then chatted on FB chat, let me know what you think. Am i going the right way?
As far as i can tell u can only build comfort online, cant do much else SPAM
Only thing i noticed was soon as i stopped asking questions , she started asking questinos. I think u have to give them a few to begin with though. I kept it as jokey as i could, threw in a jealousy hoop at the end

Im the first person speaking.


ME: oi you!
i asked what YOU did lol, not the other way around

22:14
HER: did u?
oh
lol i work at the nec
doing ticketing customer services and sales
nothing exciting lol
its alrite tho

22:14
ah wicked, my friends working there at the mo
so ur my inside person for Justin Bieber tickets

22:17
whos your friend?
haha yes!!
you a fan of him or something?

22:20
haha, yea his music really speaks to me, hes a modern day poet, i mean "baby baby baby" thats genius
her names Tash, shes working promo there at

22:21
hahahaha
please tell me your being sarcastic
im knew sooo i probably havent met her yet
being trying to find a job for ages to start a career n thats the best i could do haha
good one rach

22:23
lol, dont be ridiculous. Ur in events , just need to climb the ladder. I was literally window cleaning 4 years back before my company took off, u can do anything if u persist
hahaha, yea i was being a tad sarcastic
aaaall about the jonas brothers lol

22:25
i suppose yeah never looked at it in that wayy
weeheyyy at least i kno who to contact if i need my windows cleaning then aha

22:25
haha, my rates are very good

22:25
god i dont even listen 2 jonas brothers i just kno them as 3 curly haired boys :s

22:28
yea they are also really shit lol

22:28
hahaha

22:28
unfortunately iv never had the pleasure but i have had to work with ____ once, who was even more shit

22:29
hahaha ____? oh crikey
hes hilarious!

22:30
haha, yea, BIGTIME
so ur not into jonas, or bieber, that doesnt leave much, what do u like?

22:31
haha more of a rnb orrr not pop cheesey pop but that sort of thing
i duno depends whetehr im cheerful or reflective
haha

22:33
lol, so what have u been today, cheerful or reflective?

22:43
erm neither had people shouting all day so justt high blood pressure what sort of moods that? aha
stressed?

22:52
oh wow, thats not good. It wasnt angry take that fans was it. I think my brother was trying to get tickets lol. gay!

22:52
haha nooo it was all the other shows had it in the neck all week tho

22:53
there are a lot of unhappy peeps out there, waiting to take it out someone

22:53
all in a days work tho eh
soo what was you upto in birmingham when i saw you?

22:55
just you know , hanging by the starbucks toilets
nah my friend _____ hes a rapper, hes been in India for a fwe months so we were doing a man catch up
like u girls do , but more masculine

22:57
hahaha clearly wasnt masculine at all was it
like the talent your chilling with
unfortunately my friends arent as coola s that but still great just your average joes aha

22:58
haha, i try to b cool but im a geek. so what were you upto?

23:00
haha arw! got paid so went shopping for a few bits n bobs nothing special

23:01
there used to be the best starbucks in the ____, do u remember the one in borders? i used to love that plae

23:02
noo?

23:03
yea there used to be a massive one upstairs with magazines n stuff, was awesome

23:03
what happened to it?
you definitely spend too much time in there aha

23:05
haha, i know. to b fair though, in the states they have loads of coffee shops n diners where people hang out
in bham people just want to get to primark and then out again lol

23:07
hahaha
dont knock primark!
primark got me through my days of unemployment haha
cheap clothes
altho now theyve gone up in price loads for what you get

23:08
haha, i got love for primark. But you can get killed in that place. People are harsh!

23:09
hahah theyre so rude everyones pushin and its like a jumble sale

23:10
can i get a female opinion on this please lol
If a girl says to you , and im quoting from another convo "give me ur number n its not so i cn stalk u btw"
thats pretty much guaranteed they ARE a stalker right lol

23:11
hahahah
id be a bit worried yeah
altho they mite be tryinn 2 make a poor joke

23:12
haha maybe, either way , scared!!
u working tomorrow?

23:13
noo sorted all my appointments out n thigns for tomorrow so i can enjoy my weekend
anywayy im off to bed
was nice talking to you..night xx

23:14
u too
night x

Sorry mate but I don't get if that's trying to chat a girl up or not.

You don't seem to be making a move except the girl asking for your number at the end.

You didn't use any innuendo or anything. I would have called up her spelling of things "Thigns" and made a comment about her thighs.

"I'm sorry huni. I completely misread that. I thought you said something about your thighs. I was getting a little concerned then." Or something along those lines.

Also, I wouldn't try to hype up other people too much. You're sucking attention away from yourself.

Yeah it's a pretty general conversation. You could have made some escalations there.
Would do you good if you were looking to expand your circle using an HB though.

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Thanks for the feedback.
Im pretty full on with flirting normally but i was a bit skeptical on fb chat.
Reason being it was our first real conversation and it was over the internet.

What do you reckon i should do from here. I was going to send her a message saying
"I was in Starbucks today for an hour and i didnt see you. Either your stalking is approaching professional status or you are slipping. In which case im sorry but im going to have to audition for a new one"

I dont want to be too sleezey at this stage. Im also 28, shes 18, so dont want to freak her out. But would like to get her out on a date asap.

cheers guys

don't seem desperate, just follow the rules from the good ol' pick up artists !!

u shud try to meet her and then apply all ur skills in pick up to get her on...

good luck !!!

I.. Couldn't help but agree. Since you're already 10 years older, the girl probably eyes you with a bit of skeptism. Try nothing cheesy/copy-pasted, just make it seem genuine and confident.

And please try to establish some offline contact at least at the initial stage. First impression matters a lot.

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