hi
so here is the cruel situation

i've known this girl for 3 years now, but never met her cause she was living in another city
now she moved into mine for college
i've never tried to give her the ideea that i wanna be friends, i've even told her that a boy can never be just friends with a girl

ok SPAM
i've met her for the first time, and i took her to a salsa class ( i know how to dance )
and it was really boosting my figure cause there were like 20+ girls there begging to dance with me so for an hour and a half i didnt talk to my date cause we were both busy
after that i talked and danced with her too
she didnt know where i bring her, it was a huge surprise
she told me she had such a good time and she is thanking me

ok, second date, i take her to a nice tea and she was giving me all these signals, playing non stop with her hair, touching me, playing with my hair
but i dont know the city by car ( i recently got my driving card ) and i was thinking how i will get back cause i was in the other end of the city
so when i took her home she wouldnt leave the car, just kept talking and talking and crap
and suddenly i see her with her mouth opened coming in to me and i pussied out and kissed her between the cheek and mouth
told me she had a great time the next day

i was so upset i didnt do anything, i told myself i am a stupid, a retard a fool etc
so i called her and tried to fix a date the next week, but...she had plans with a collegue of hers
and i asked if it was a date and she said "something like that"
i asked if she had a good time and she said yes

ever since ( that means 4 days ) i havent seen her, cause she said she has an exam and has to study for it
thing is i am falling for her and i realize that untill now i was speaking to her when she initiated the talk, but ever since "the guy" appeared i kinda spam her with msgs
i need to stop and have a plan, but what plan? cause i cant sleep and eat and shit
i am very dissapointed of myself

she has the exam tomorow, and she says she wishes she doesnt have it, cause she is not ready
and i told her i want her to give it tomorow, so i will see her monday
and she said "we'll see *kiss*"


i've lost 2kgs this week

i've read some articles
i do a lot of sports

i know how to catch girls and how to charm them
i am having problems with closing


ps: my phone battery died and she asked me if i wanna come up and try to recharge it
i said no, cause i didnt know if my feet smell or something, cause i got sweaty driving that much in the city + she has a room mate and it wouldnt have been sex anyway


31 views and no answer?:(

ok
in case u dont wanna read all of that
here are the cliffs
- i know her for 3 years
- i finally have a chance to meet her
- she enjoys my company and is very excited
- second date goes too well, but i fail to close
- now she either avoids me or she really doesnt have time
- i'm nuts about her

It seems to me as though you've been answering your own questions all along in that paragraph. It's usually the girls who give out the cheek.. But this case is surprising (I gave my girlfriend the cheek but that was after our first few kisses and was obviously a joke :/ ). Now in your place, I'd have capitalized on this opportunity and gone ''not so early babe '' (although in your place I'd rather just have kissed her).

My suggestion would be to strengthen your closing game, go out there and give it your best once again.

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Women are plenty, time is not.

what about this girl?

this particular one


should i push more on her? i am confident if i get the third date i am closing it
but how do i get it?
cause things changed and i dont get the same vibe from her

apparently she hooked up with that boy
either break off with her any relation, either knock his teeth out, either shoot myself
thinking...