(I hope I'm posting this in the right section...)

I was just running a few interesting ideas through my mind and for a set of them I suddenly realized a generalization. This is similar to push-pull, yet different. The idea is to contaminate her reality regardless of your own reality. It uses somewhat of frame control as a base combined with push-pull and cocky-funny. The idea is to always adjust her state. If she gets too cocky, bust her balls. If she's feeling down a bit, build her up. A good example would be what I was doing with a girl last night. I'll give you pieces of our conversation. I wasn't really going with the M3 model this time, but generally with C&F and natural game. These are not 100% the same, but they get the point across.

Me: Oh, I like this song. *starts dancing a little bit* What, you aren't dancing?
Her: No, I don't really know how to dance.
Me: It's easy. *puts hands on her shoulders* Ok, now move left and right. See, it's easy.
Her: Oh, you mean like dancing freely.
Me: Yes, of course. I don't know any pre-scripted dances either. I just dance as I feel.

Conclusion: Her reality was on a low at that point and I tuned it up. Her reality became contaminated with something positive. Even though she doesn't usually have fun dancing, she had fun dancing this time with me. I was bringing out the best in her. Next one.

Her: What do you do for a living?
Me: I do X.
Her: Yeah? That sounds nice.
Me: It's awesome. Ever since I was 7, I wanted to do this. I went to highschool for this and even graduated in college. I got my master last summer. And now I do X for a living. It's a dream come true for me. (You probably notice some grounding here, similar to how Mystery likes to do it.)
Her: That sounds great.

I've contaminated her reality with my own. This comes down to sucking her into your own reality. I have another example of that later on. But this one isn't done yet! It goes on.

Me: What did you want to do when you were 7?
Her: Well, I don't remember.
Me: You had to have a dream when you were 7.
Her: I think I wanted to be a teacher. But I never really knew what I wanted.
Me: That's too bad. Are you at least doing something that you like?
Her: To be honest, I still don't really know what I'd like to do.
Me: That's a bit sad. You know what you should do? You should try to figure out the things that you can do well. If you don't do what you really love, you should be at least doing something that you're good at. It's a way to go.
Her: Yeah, that sounds like a good idea.

Here I've contaminated her reality with something positive again. I've shown her a path in her life. I am suddenly leading her through. I think I should rather say that I've contaminated her reality with my personality. And it still goes on.

Her: So you do X for a living... This must be great for you. You probably get to be very creative at your job.
Me: Totally. The guys are work are awesome and we're always messing around. Lots of ideas get generated just by having so much fun.
Her: That's great.
Me: We have kind of a sick humor so we always keep messing around with stuff that we shouldn't. Like our project idea Y.
Her: Ahahahaha! That's sick, yeah.
Me: It's just for fun. Nobody really cares.

This time she actually contaminated her own reality with mine. Here's a last one.

Me: Hey, do you do any sports?
Her: Well, not really...
Me: I'm usually not a sports guy, but paintball is just awesome.
Her: Paintball?
Me: Yeah. I remember the first time I was there. It was crazy. Just before the first round started and we went down the hill, my heart started pounding like crazy. It was like BAM BAM BAM. *does a heartbeat motion with his fist on his chest* It was like that for 15 minutes straight. Can you imagine that? It's a one-in-a-lifetime experience.

Here I've contaminated her reality with my emotions. BTW, for those who have read my Paintball routine, I've refined it to a pure display of emotion. Even part 1 works great. I can tell because when I was done with it, I could see in her eyes that she wanted to hear more stories. She got quite excited.

I think that Reality Contamination is more of a generalized concept that sums several other concepts. If she feels down, I build her up. If she is indecisive, I decide for her. If she feels cocky, I'm cockier. If she's bitchy, I'm fun. If she feels good, I make her feel even better. The closest concept would probably be frame control, but it seems broader to me than just pure frame control.

Any thoughts on this? Maybe I'm just rehashing already existing concepts. But then again Push-Pull, C&F and negging+qualification are pretty much the same things as well.

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