Well I've been running game on a HB7 for the last month or so. The first week I felt that attraction there, she would lean into me and everything but now it seems like none of that ever happened.

She still has a big smile on her face whenever I talk to her but whenever I try to play any kino games I get rejected all the time.

For example I say let me see your hands for a second and she just straight up says no. The attraction seems to have died and I don't have a clue why it did.

I have tried to come to some conclusion as to why this has happened, I know this is a learning curve so I want you guys to try and explain where I went wrong so I don't end up making that mistake again (whatever it is).

I know their might not be enough information here to actually come to terms what I have done wrong but if you require more info just reply to the thread.

Please guys I'mn kind of stuck with this girl and I don't want to continue to try and game her unless it's already over so I don't wanna waste my time.

Thanks in advance

Sometimes we forget that not all women are susceptible to our game and not all women are going to be attracted to us. Maybe time to move on...

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Eh, this happens, it looks like she lost feelings for you or just isnt that attracted anymore, I would move to the next one man

As per the two posts above mine I'm agreeing. This would be the time to move on and not kick a dead horse. Which is great in theory but it doesn't answer the why. From what you've written, there is no way we could come to any kind of conclusion for you. And honestly it will take a lot of thinking on your part to come to a conclusion. What you need to think about and/or post up is:

A. Was the interaction friendly or flirty from the get go?
B. While she might have been accepting of kino escalation before, did she reciprocate?
C. Did you get any IOIs, which ones and when did they stop?
D. Do the both of you have enough similar interests and goals to sustain a form of relationship? You might just not have had that much in common with her.
E. Do you get along with her friends. If her friends talked shit about you, it's a lot tougher to bounce back after.
F. Did you kiss her in the first few hangouts? Maybe she placed you in the friends zone.
G. The big question= is this really worth salvaging. It's a big world out there, there's hundreds of millions of beautiful women out there. I'm pretty sure this one wouldn't be worth my time to figure out... well unless she looks like Heidi Klum...

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Thanks for the replies guys. I think it is time I move on. This girl is in my college class so she isn't a simple case of forget and move on.

Enjoi I will post the answers to your questions, I hope it will make things clearer as to the downfall of this pick up.

A: It was definetely flirty from the get go. I was teasing her being C+F and getting great responses from her.

B: Yes she did accept kino initially like I was playing with her hair and she was fine with it but I do it now and she says stop it. hmm :/

C: IOIs such as punching me playfully in the arm and lightly kicking under the table. She had that look in her eye, so eye contact was kind of sexual aswell.

D: I'm not too sure, I haven't actually had conversation with her about her interests. Maybe there wasn't enough comfort here?

E: It's a new college class and her friends are my friends. We are all in the same class and I get along with pretty much everyone so I don't think anyone chats shit about me.

F: There has been no kissing. It's college and its a bit inappropriate to try kiss close in class LOL but I'm pretty certain I haven't been put in the friends zone.

G: She's a pretty girl but there is more out there of course. She is the only girl in my class so i'm probably having a bit of a one-itis crisis lol

Hope this information has helped make the situation a bit clearer man

GoldDust, sounds to me as if you were doing everything right.

I'd just keep doing my C/F thing and have fun. In your situation, I'd freeze out any kino from now on until she starts doing it to you. Unfortunately it seems as though this is a game of Cat/String that might be a long-term situation until you can get the interaction back into your own frame. Could be done in a week or in a month.

I've had a similar experience with a girl that i'd been seeing on and off for a few years, and all of a sudden it dropped into the ever so sketchy friends zone. Here's what I did:

I used to call or text her every other day to hang out. We usually did, so I didn't see a problem with it. Once we hit the friends zone and she wouldn't kiss me anymore, I stopped calling, texting, everything. She didn't call me or text me for two weeks (that's enough of a sign that I was doing it too much) When she did call though, she was the one asking to hang out and that it had been way too long. I agreed to hang out (not the same night that she had requested) but only for an hour or two a few days from then.

We went to the beach at night and hung out on the sand talking. I didn't touch her at all. Didn't run game on her at all. Told her about a new girl that I had met a couple weeks before that was pretty cool. (make yourself the prize)

Then she started punching me playfully and cuddling up. I ran some routines on her like palm reading and Neil Strauss' one about picturing a box in your mind. She loved it - I did some sexual tension building with her by touching her in places that provoke sexual responses(neck, collar bone, hips). I made sure not to kiss her. I just let the tension build until she wanted to kiss me... and brought her back home without kissing or heavy petting. It didn't just go back to normal, I had the upper-hand in the relationship.

I don't know if this example can be fully applied to your situation but hopefully it can provide some insight. It doesn't sound like you did anything in particular to make the interaction go southward, however you might need to reprogram the frame of the interaction so that you're the one being chased; not the one chasing.

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If I had to say why, then would be D. You're C&F, negs, etc that's like your window dressing, thats what gets her in the store, once in there she has to see something she wants to buy, if not she's going to walk out. Same thing, the routines were interesting and got her attention, but she didn't see any substance, you need to show that there is more to you than just that. Women like a man who listens to their interests, goals etc (not their problems, thats what her GF and AFCs are for)

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