Ok, i have been talking to this girl for a while now, she says she has a huge crush on me, she wants to leave her bf for me, she always tell me about their problems, but when I try to make her qualify she shuts me down, I say hey sweetie call me after u get off work "no I can't I'll be with bf" on her day off she says "I can't text u cuz I'm with my bf" she told me she was going to break up with him in "one month"???? WTF?? I told her I was leaving for California in a month "lie" cuz I was trying to make her qualify in some way. She just ignored me, I know it pushed her button, but she never tried to tell me not to go or stay here with her, so I didn't push it and confessed that I wasn't going to Cali I was just trying to find how much she actually cared about me,
Question: when she starts telling me about her problems with her bf, do I tell her "no I don't want to talk about that subject" or would that just piss her off? Do I listen?? Do I go to bf bashing?? I think this may be her first real bf 1.5 yrs and they are "engaged" but she's not going to marry him... According to what she tells me. No kids involved. I know she wants me bad, but I don't think she's going to cheat on him. I think she is using me to make herself feel better so she can make up with her bf. I'm doing all the work and she's benefiting from it. I would make this girl my gf if I could cuz I like her. I have one itis for her and she has it for me

She's not doing it on purpose, all she knows is when she talks to me things magically get better with her and her bf. She told me she is confused and doesn't know what she wants in life, I have tried to imply and go about everything in a sneaky way, but it never clicks that that's what Im talking about, if I keep doing what I'm doing, it isn't going to get better, but I don't want to lose a chance with her. I can't trigger her jealousy button, I can't make her qualify, maybe I'm doing it wrong..

she is def playing with you.

You need to next her.

This doesnt mean ignore her, but just basically get physical in a sexual way.

If she doesnt like it, then you cant be around her cause you just cant help yourself.

Basically you need to act like you cant keep your hands off her.



I sent you a pm. If anyone else wants it pm me asking for it. I think its the most effective stuff you will ever find anywhere.

This way she has to make a choice, if shes not going to sleep with you, then you wont be wasting your time with her.

But if you are sexual enough it will work and you will do her the next time you see her. I dont mean rape her. you have to look like your in control of yourself but like as if god put her on this earth for you to fuck her. And by not fucking her you are wasting gods precious effort.

So either she goes with gods plans and you both fuck, or she leaves.

Her reaction will most likely be to leave, but shell get curious after a while if you dont message her. If your sexual come ons were mature enough, she will definetly talk to you again.

And its essential that you blame all of this on her. Its her fault you want to screw her, cause shes so damn sexy, its her fault. Dont treat her like the fragile and pure girl that lives next door to your family. Treat her like the woman she is, the woman that wants to have rough pleasurable and satisfyingly perverted sex

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He said he believes in being fair so he wanted to let me know in advance that he
is going to seduce me

ok ill try this, i friend zoned her a couple days ago with the ljbf, she didnt like that, she wanted an explination for that, i basically told her it was her fault and she apologized, i am going to try not contacting her for a while(going to be very hard for me) and maybe it will work, i just gotta play real cool, i know she wants me almost as much as i want her, but shes preoccupied at the moment with bf. maybe they will fight and she will try to use me for her comfort blanket again. but im not guna let that happen again.

I hope you read the pm I sent you

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He said he believes in being fair so he wanted to let me know in advance that he
is going to seduce me

I'll tell you what... Unless this babe was a super smart HB8.5+ and her current bf was a Jerkass D-bag2.5 who treated her awfully, and I had a high amount of liking for her as did she for me and we shared a very high level of understanding, I wouldn't invest my time in her. You never know if she's playing or just temperamental or just crazy or genuine.... So why waste time?

If she can dump her current for you, she'll dump you for another one tomorrow. A matured woman would leave her boyfriend for his bad qualities and not for another guy.

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Women are plenty, time is not.

your getting very close in description, super smart 8.5+, douch bag bf 2.5. this girl is a TORMENTER she has been tormenting guys since she was 5. i know she likes me a lot, she wouldnt do what she do or put up with what i do to her if she didnt like me. but the bf thing is crazy, another thing is that he bought her the car she drives and a place to live so if she left then she would have no ride, no house. she makes plenty of money to support herself. she has no bad habits, not crazy. but i do think she is selfish. she is used to being treated like a damn princess and getting her way.. i did read your pm laaddict. it makes a lot of sence to me. we will see each other again, its inevitable, we have a lot of the same friends and go to the same places a lot, so next time i see her i will lay all that out on the table and see what her reaction is. thank you. i can find other girls to game, but if i get this one, it will be game over ya know?

she actually broke up with her bf. now shes telling me"i just want to be by myself for a while" and "dont rush it" and "i think im talking to someone else" im bout to give up on this chick!