sup guys hopefully this forum can provide me with some insight once again. on saturday I # closed a hb9 who works at the local mall. I am really new to the game so even that was a feat for me (baby steps). I had talked to her a few times before then so it wasnt totally out of the blue. So we exchanged #s after I asked her out to coffee sometime. Anyways heres where it gets tricky. I called her monday after work, she didn't answer. I left a vmail saying whats up call me back. I got no response but a friend request on fb at 1130 pm. I still haven't gotten any response just the friend request. Can someone who is good at this decode for me? Also I have not tried to call or message further cuz I don't want to come on too strong. Any ideas on what the hell to do??? Help![/quote]

Hey man, if I were you I would just call her if theres no answer, theres no answer. If you send her emails texts, friend requests, all that shit shows that you are interested, let her be the one chasing you to hang out. She will see that you called her and if she wants to call back she will.

JeLLy

This. I will quote what a friend told me after she got this guys number saterday night

"haha he is calling me all the time brad. Leaving me messages and everything....=IGNORE"

So I wouldnt be calling her or leaving anymore messages. Let her come to you if she is really interested.

IDEALLY, I would have called her once. If no answer I would have txt'd her Once but that is it. I wouldn't have added her to my F.B. People have to EARN that

Sorry I think I confused u guys.. She added ME. I did not request her. Thats why I am confused. I have not tried any other contact other than the one call. Im confused because she hasn't responded yet went out of her way to add me after not responding. we also have no mutual friends so she went out of her way too find me.