Hey guys.

My girlfriend watched an epsiode of Simpsons and asked me if I would lend her for a weekend to an unknown man for 1 Million Dollars.

I told her if she is okay with it of course I would, damn just think what we could do with all that money! F***ing awesome!!!

She became utterly pissed.

I need an advice in relationships in general. I think, every logically thinking man that can't wipe his ass with Benjamins, would agree to such (like Homer Simpson in that Episode). How about you? Am I right here?

So are we supposed to lie in our relationships, or does it have any good sides that I told the truth here? I have big problems with lying in any situation, that's why.

Greetings

She became "utterly pissed" as you put it, because she wanted you to say "what, babe? Of course not! I never want you to be with someone else even for all that money". She was totally shit testing you... Basically, she was asking you to choose between her love and a whole bunch of money. Because you chose the money over her, her ego is bruised and she feels like you care more about money than about her. Even though you said "think of what WE could do with all that money", she sees you as being extremely selfish and in a way prostituting her out for your own selfish financial gain. I understand you didn't mean it like that, but that's how women think. One of my friend's boyfriends made a passing comment about how attractive one of her friends was and she didn't talk to him for days!

You have asked should you lie in relationships and my answer to this is a definite NO but there is such thing as a white lie just to avoid hurting your partner. You do not have to be BRUTALLY honest with her if it's going to upset her.

Anyways, hope this has helped a little

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hahaha you should have known she would get mad girls are so predictable with this kind of shit but i still would have said the same thing.

This is probabbly one of the most easiest shit test. You should have said, Not in million years . Every girl likes to feel special and you did the opposite ,you would trade her like an object. What were you expecting.

My wife turned that question around on me once, when i said "of course", by asking would we still be willing to do the deal if it me ME the guy wanted, not her, for the $ million. Ugh, I suddenly saw why she didnt like it so much.

I'd have gone "1 million? I'd PAY him a million to TAKE you away". Woulda made her slap my shoulder or something. But I'd have gotten away.

You gotta give stupid answers to stupid questions my friends. These questions are such, you try to answer them seriously and they get you killed.



You get me?

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Eh, I would says "Of course I would".
"Insert mad girlfriend here"

"Babe, the actual question is, would you throw away a million dollars just because you dont want to sit on a couch and watch a couple movies with a guy for a weekend? Not like you're promising sex or anything of the sort."

"Yes"

"Well, you're dumb then"


end of story.

who cares if she is mad.

She asked the question, you gave her a truthful answer. Her fault, not yours. Don't lie just to make her feel better, it won't work.

You needn't lie but you needn't be so brutally honest either..

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i`d go as low as 100 thousand...and then try to talk the man into taking her every weekend for that price on a year contract

So the answers are varying a lot I see.

If those who say that it is a shittest were right, then I was correct there, because lying to her with "No I would never ever lend you for no money" is definitely AFC behaviour and no difference to how I would've reacted couple of years ago.


Others say I should not have been brutally honest. The only opposite to being honest is already lying. And even though your answer is definetly gold, Junglepimp, it's also lying. But in fact, it's what I needed in this moment. I see another problem here: In 90% of cases after laughing about such answer I will hear "But honestly... what would you really do?"

And I say...?

Mine is just not a serious enough answer to be termed as a truth or a lie, I think.

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There are some things that should be said, some that should be covered up and some that should never be said. This is not a shit test, in my opinion, maybe if she was a girl you just met, you could say of course, in a flirty and cocky way. But if she´s your girlfriend, come on that hurts a shitload to her. Really how would you feel if she said yes... maybe you don´t react that bad, you say "Holy shit a million dollars" but it still breaks the pillars upon the relationship is made.
This is a really touchy subject, because if you really preffer the money, and you told her you didn´t, youre lying to her, but if you told her you want the money instead she´ll be devastated. I would be if my GF preffered it over me. Myself, I preffer her over the money, so I don´t have to lie to her. Money is not forever, love may be, money can´t buy love. If you don´t love her or have any feelings for it, then go ahead, take the million dollars.

The c+f answer, as mentioned above, would be something like "hell, there are days when I'd PAY to have somebody take you off my hands for a few hours!" but of course this is only ok with the right delivery, and in a casual situation like over a few drinks.

The serious answer would be that she's free to do what she wants, and if she wanted the money she could take it, because it's her choice. Furthermore, does she care that much about money? Does she think money = happiness? Now you've changed the subject and are having an interesting conversation.

A deeper point is that women are going to always be probing and testing you, even when you're in a relationship. Resist the urge to fall into the AFC frame of her asking you loaded questions like "do I look fat in this" etc. and then you tripping all over yourself to say the right thing and apologising if she gets mad, by simply refusing to buy into it. Frame the entire context of the relationship as her trying to make you happy, and these questions will stop coming up at all.

The best way to do this? The point system. Give her points for doing stuff you like, and lose points when she does something you don't like. Say it in a fun way, and initially she'll likely laugh it off, but if you keep doing it she will work for these magical points. If the more points she gets means she gets either a hug or a kiss all the way up to sex, then she's working to make you happy and her REWARD is a good hard seeing to.

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