so i did it, and ive pulled her hair, and no primal orgasmic feeling at sight!!

so i said try pulling my hair - and she didnt pull hard enough

at this point i was like no this is really cool stuff, let me show you -
her: no dont, youll pull it ard and it will hurt!

so i thought like well i guess im not byting her then XD

anyways she just wont give up the KC!!
i did kino, but she pulls back once in a while
any advice? (on routine or on kiss close??)

Screw phase shifting or blatantly asking for a k-close.

Microescalation is the shit.

Be the first the break contact if you sence resistance with kino.

Its better when you run your hand up the back of her neck, an when you have enough hair between your fingers just grip a little hard an barly pull. Sniff from the bottom of her neck up to her earlobe an say "You smell so good".

The hairpull doesn't get her hot an ready all by its self. So point to your neck an tell her to bite it. when she doesn't bite hard enough say "here let me show you how its dont" an bite her back then instuct her to try again.
If she refuses to bite your neck, turn away for a second, dont say anything because the turn away is enough. After a few seconds point to your neck an say "Bite rite here" chances are she will do it this time in fear of loosing your attension.

I'll tell you the first time I used it.

I smelled her, told her about smell blabla. it went ok.

I pulled her hair, she felt nothing. She couldn't pull my hair, I'm bald.

I bit her elbow, it was awful. I had no idea what I was doing. She didn't like it.

I told her about neck biting, she wouldn't let me do that to her.

I freeze her there.

Next day in a club, I game bunch of girls, I get *close, and guess who comes by and bites my neck without me mentioning anything. We dance, I go for the kiss and still she wouldn't let me kiss her. Then I steel her frame by saying "Now I like you even more. I've kissed enough girls in my life, hack I just kissed one 5 minutes ago and I'll tell you what. I don't remember all the girls that I've kissed, but I remember those that got away." You should see that DDBL.

no situation is lost. it's all inner game.

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