Yeah exactly. If she's accusing you of being a player.. Then you probably are showing the characteristics of a player. No point pretending you're not and giving an explanation (which is also severely beta). Take pride and give it a humorous touch.

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With shit tests like that I just exaggerate and totally blow it out of proportion.

"Are you a player?"
"Oh you know it. I have fourteen girlfriends here and another five at home."

i get this question a lot.....most of them ask smth like: so you study pshychology to be the ultimate player?

i look in their eyes with a easily dirty smile and say: Does it really bother if the answer is yes? I had no one answering "yes it does"

This is an easy one, you guys are thinking too much. Just say "What?" and change the subject. It's a stupid question and deserves a stupid answer. If she pushes it say you don't believe in that or something.

I have lists of responses for any question she may ask that might stop you.


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The point of this thread was to help me improve the question:
"How many guys have you slept with?"

I dont care to hear the other things that Ive clearly said dont work, and they dont work on girls who have any inkling of self respect. Im sure most nightclub girls love being playful and the people who say it worked because you f-closed them later in the day, Im sure are not lying. But daygame, college game and stuff like that, girls cannot think I am a player.

If you are stilll not convinced then lets just say I do not want girls to think Im a player. If I did, I would just take the advice of all the other unimaginative people who say go with it and jump through her hoop, and Id do it. But i do not want her to think I am a player.

Now I have seen many threads and posts on how to respond with stupid things like exagerating "I have 14 girlfriends." and completely denying it.
I have seen the posts that say ignore her.
But I am not interested in these. I want someone with even the tiniest bit of creativity to help improve on the new and unique tecnique of asking her a question that will disarm her and attack her with a similar question. So that she has to jump through a hoop of mine, not the other way around.

Again, if you want to tell me what Ive already heard and read a million times in posts and books, cause Ive read almost every book there is to read on PUA, PLEASE DONT WASTE OUR TIME. Because I will actually waste my time reading your futile effort to change my mind.

Hopefully there is at least one person who agrees that I am onto something here, someone who has read all 15 or so posts in this thread up till this one. Please help me improve the question I typed in the first post.

PLEASE NO MORE POSTS TELLING ME TO IGNORE HER OR JUST TELL HER IM A PLAYER.

in response to "are you a player?"

-put your arm around her/kino escalate, and say "no baby, you know you're the only girl for me" in a joking way.

You can also apply this to the "how many girls have you slept with?" question.

Hahaha, you had me laughing.

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The problem is your taking her, the question, and the idea that your a player way too seriously. It's really not that big a deal. If you can convey to her that it's a stupid question your problem is solved. Just say "what" and change the subject. She'll pick up on that. She'll think she asked a stupid question.

I refer to Gambler quite a bit and I joke about it at first by responding do you have a calculator on you? Then after I'll say honestly I am dating a few girls, but I am a guy that can be in a relationship. I really enjoy girlfriends and if I really like a girl I won’t cheat, I’ll treat her really well, but in the meantime I’ll be honest if I’m dating other girls or not and everybody will know the whole situation.

I like to joke about it then I'll answer it with honesty later.

There's a few ways to handles this.

Her: You seem like a player.
PUA: I'm not a player, I'm just popular. Oh! Did you know that..

or

Her: You seem like a player
PUA: Don't joke baby, you know your the only girl for me.

The second one is supposed to be done jokingly, so it's not as direct. But, if you wanted to go for something rather honest afterward..try

Her: You seem like a player.
PUA: Well to be honest, I'm seeing a few girls right now, but, I love having girlfriends, I never cheat on them, and I always treat them well. Actually...your just my type....but I don't trust you for some reason. Anyway! Did you hear..

It's good to say something jokingly and then follow it up with something serious. In most cases, you want to leave her wondering, but in a case like this, you really don't want to have any grey zones.

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Yes, it's true you never said anything about calling her a slut but by asking her the question:

"How many guys have you slept with?"

You are actually framing her as a slut. And that is never a good thing.

"nah im the coach"

is the best one i think..goes well with my kind of personality as well..

I'd like to meet the one that says "YES"

"Are you a player" ??

Im trying to be someday...