so I almost NEVER do phone game but i decided to try it out with this girl i've been getting decent amounts of IOI's from. We were at a Bboy (breakdancing) battle yesterday with our crew and i needed a ride home from the afterparty and she's like "oh, here's my number. Call me, i'll give you a ride." So when i needed to go i texted her but she didn't show up until after i needed to leave so she just stayed at the party.

Following text convo looks like this.

Me: hows the party?

Her: Haven't really come in.

Me: Damn wish i was there

Her: Yeah it's cool

Me: Im so jealous right now XD

Her: why Haha

Me: Cuz ur havin loads more fun than i am now lol

Her: Not at all Haha

Me: I bet ur lying XD. You just want me not to feel bad

She didn't respond after that. Did i screw up; somewhere or am i just reading too much into it?

She didn't really sound interested at any point but perhaps she was just occupied.

You should not of messaged her during this time. She hardly knows you, so she's going to be paying more attention to having fun at that particular moment than replying to your texts. The day after would have sufficed, and you need to avoid the boring questions (Eg. Hows the party). They're questions too easily answered.

Be creative and playful.

I'd say stating that she is having more fun than you do is pretty much the exact opposit of what you should do. Usually, you should tell her that whatever you are doing is way more fun than the lame party you could escape.

Ya, I think these are DLVs


"Me: Im so jealous right now XD"
"Me: Cuz ur havin loads more fun than i am now lol"

Anyways, dunnow if she lost interest. Your last message doesnt really need a reply. Dont count her out yet.

It should be more like:

You: Hows that party you were telling me about before?

Although you added a few more words, it has a friendlier edge to it.

As stated above never EVER say shes having more fun than you or that your have a lamer time. If she doesnt know you well, she will associate those initial feelings to you being lame/boring.