great posts fellow scouser! keep up the good work!:)

Yeah took me a minute to learn this concept, of just having fun, or just doing what you need to do. The women just come as a byproduct of you doing one of those two things. I like some of your concepts. I think I may have to use them .

I don't remember who said it, but this is a relevant phrase that I like.

"Women are the reward for becoming an awesome guy." Women aren't the goal, they are just a byproduct, as you said it.

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Scouser01, you're doing great! It reminded me of stepping up my game. I've been improving on all areas except for the approaching part. I really need to start doing this as well. Keep it up!

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Be always on the move, it looks dynamic!

I am doing well at the moment guys BUT I want to take my game to the next level..

I am thinking of saving up money to go on Badboy's extreme spring break in March, nearly everything I have learnt is from him - so we have a similar style of game and so I feel he is the only PUA that will really be able to help me out..

Any suggestions??

You should rather save the money and find another PUA you can go out with. In fact, you should get a couple of them (like I did). That way you can go out pretty much every 2-3 days and you can exchange experiences. I think that workshops are worth the money only for people who can't get off the PC and suck at social interactions in general.

Another PUA can also give you feedback on your approaches. You can debrief at the end of the night and he might notice a few things that you do wrong. e.g. When we just met, one of my wings told me that I go in too stiff. I would raise my chest too high and my voice would be way too harsh (since I pretty much break the conversation with a loud hey in a projective voice). After he told me that, I immediately tuned it down and my approach became a lot better instantly. Now I don't even bother doing anything much. I use a normal (though, still projective) voice and I use my opener casually (something like "Hey, girls. I have a question for you. I have a problem and I need a female opinion on that.") and then I just go on as if I'm asking the girl in the bakery for a loaf of bread.

Get one or another wing, this will already get your game to the next level.

Also, going out with another PUA is so different than going out with friends. You don't get judged if you don't approach. You don't get pressured like your friends pressure you. You know what I mean. You see a girl you like and after saying it out loud, your friends are all like "go in, go in, go in". If you don't go in, they give you a hard time. A PUA is way different. I always tell my wing something like "It's alright, there will be other sets." You share the abundance mentality. A missed opportunity is nothing. Besides, you can pump up each other's state a lot better if you both know why you're out there.

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yo scouser iv'e been out with 2 pua's in the past off this forum. In fact he gave me a call and asked to meet up over the weekend. Im sure he wouldnt mind if you came along. If you want you can PM him, his name on this is Reactionz.

Scouser this is awesome !
Goodjob man , I'm around the same age as you and you motivated me to start aproaching too. Some of this stuff sounds too good to be true lol, I guess you'll never know what'll happen until you approach ^.^

Just be careful, don't let any of these gurus take financial advantage of you.

Very motivating SCOUSER! I'm 18 and although I have noticably improved my game since reading The Game, I haven't quite grabbed the bull by the horns like you have. You deserve any results you get man.

Starting tomorrow, I am going to start making approaches en masse during the day-it should be fun. I will start easy and aim for 20 approaches during the day (no hired guns either), then build up over time.

Congratulations again.

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So I went out today, AA got the better of me and I made fuck all approaches. Feel pissed off at myself now though. Will do better next time. Practise makes perfect.

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Hey guys... I know I haven't posted in a while - because I have been so busy!!

I've got a fair few field reports for you guys and am quite excited to share them but first off, I just want to say, that before I go out with any of you guys during the day - I want to get really good first, like REALLY good!!

So I can help guys out, that were in a similar position to myself..

PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT!! - That is what I base my entire game around, practicing, the only way to truly get good is by practicing, I don't mean learn some 'material' and 'routines' I mean actually going out and practicing..

I personally love direct game.. just knowing what you want and fucking taking it!! Saying whats on your mind, be sexually teasing and just having fun - ALL OF THIS BOILS DOWN FROM PRACTICING!

Now, I am going to keep these field reports short..

Two weeks, a friend of mine had a party.. I was the life of the party, socialising with people, enjoying myself, having fun!! I sit down to watch the football highlights, a couple of the girls I was talking to early, going direct on, be sexual with them.. unbuttoned my shirt and started rubbing cream all over my body..

I took the cute one upstairs.. told her to wait.. I had a bath.. I came out naked

Took her to an empty room and fingered her (first time ever) (HB7)


A week after, I went to town.. Couldn't be bothered with socialising with to many people - I was horny :p.. and just went direct on a couple of girls.. they could tell it was on, from the moment I said hey.. (NOT a horny vibe, a SEXUALLY FUN vibe)

I start making out with one of the girls (HB6.5), then I say to the other one... your turn and smile HB7.5.. I start making out with her (like 3 mins in).. I grab her hand, take her in a nearby toilet.. and lock the toilet..

Am building the sexual tension, 'you are so fucking hot omgg mmmm'.. (in the moment).. I start fingering her and she gives me a blowjob :p - then I'm done with her..

I go find another girl.. HB7 - start talkin to her blablabla, teasin, pullin her in physically, building sexual tension then boooommmm, makeout.. I take her in to the toilet, start making out with her and she gives me a wank!!!

We come out, I tell her to buy me a drink and she does

Then, I start talking to an HB9 - so fucking hot, being playful, teasing blablabla.. shes seen all the girls I've been pulling, I say are you a good kisser??

HB9: (blushes) yeh, am a really good kisser
ME: well lets find out then (my mistake, I should have just kissed her)
HB9: I can't, my b/f is right there (points)

I leave it.. Start talking to an HB8.9 - A girl from school - fucking gorgeous

I start talking to her, I am getting a tonne of IOI's from her.. I can tell she wants to kiss me, she keeps looking at my lips.. but I can't because a mate of mine is in love with her and is just staring at me..

At school.. I am the fucking man.. Just having fun

I practice everyday and it gets me into that state of just having fun!!

PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT!!

I've got a pool party on Saturday, can't wait - screw all the bullshit material.. I'm just gonna have fun!!!!!!

Also guys.. I may be resitting my school year - and so I will be able to focus fully on pick up. I want to get better at this.. thanks for all your help so far

If thats what you want- good for you. Just make sure you don't let anything fall by the wayside because you're focussing on PU. Keep us posted.

And just to throw this out there, K-Closed with two different girls (HB6 and HB7) on Saturday night, first time I have K-Closed in well over a year. Great to be back in the game!!

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Dude, thats brilliant! and thanks for your advice