Hi, I sarged one of my juniors in school and she was totally into me. After a couple of conversations here and there, she asked me out. I said "No". After a couple of weeks she asked wether she could set me up with some of her friends to which also I said "No". Then I asked her out and she said "No". And I was just thinking to myself, is it possible to attract a woman after you blew it?

Yes sir. It totally is. But its harder the second time. They have tried to harden themselves to you. But there is always that pinprick of liking someone even after you try to move on. Find out what it was, then act on it.

(You can ask her... what made her like you back then. if she asks why, tell her your trying to become a better person.)

Once you know what it is... show that side around her more. Then after a while make some story up about how you were afraid to get hurt, and thats why you rejected her. Tell her you would like to take the risk.

-J

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