sup ppl....

got this one HB8 on facebook. She's from Vegas, she's actually my cousin's cousin, not my relo of course.
Been trying to sarge her over facebook, tho it was running smooth at the start, geting replies each day, until i started slacking off a bit, with delays up to 2-3 days, so she started slacking off as well, and sometimes not replying at all.
Then i asked her to tell me what she was after in a relationship... to which i stuffed up, as I disqualified myself on purpose, done it in the wrong way tho i think.

so ever since she hasnt been really in touch, i sent her a few emails therafter, but she didnt reply two two of them, which i had to then reinitiate the conversation.


How can i get her back on track?! as she has not replied to my last email

Do I email her again, its been about 3 days (and i doubt she will email again).

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Dude 3 days really isnt that long, you are showing way to much interest keep messaging her, over and over.

yeh mate i understand what ya mean.. normally i wouldnt act up on this, just because its been only 3 days. Coz i let her wait longer than that previously.

However, she does jump on facebook, as i can see her activity etc, but dont answer my msg, and last time she done that, she never responded. Tho when i reinitiated a new conversation she replied straight away the next day.

What i think is that i have not shown enough value for her, so her interest is not high at all, and thats why she sometimes replies and other time not.

Especially after I stupidly disqualified myself.

So any idea how i can get her back on the hook, show value, and get her interested again????

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Dude maybe you should leave it a while if she doesn't reply... then kickstart the relationship in a couple of weeks?

I think i good way to ease a girl to chat with you is send her a simple message that she is sure to reply to, such as 'how are you?' then after you get a reply instigate the IM

yep. good on ya mate. have done that actually, havent written her anything. in fact i have deactivated facebook (not because of her tho, but because it consumes a large amount of my little free time i have).
So maybe in a couple of weeks/months when/if i return to facebook ill try a different approach.

altho i got her number anyways, and she has mine, so can get in touch that way as well...
thanks for advise. appreciate it.

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