First of all, this is kinda sticking point for me but also this is a one-itis question so please don't lock this before I get an answer. Thanks.

So basically this girl(I had a few posts about before) just broke up with her boyfriend. I'm interested in her. She might know that. We know each other and sometimes talk to each other. She is older. What should I do. I want to ask her out on a date but I don't wanna be flaked- any suggestions? + I'm 18 and I'm in USA and I don't have a car...HELP. Forgetting is not an option. Any Ideas when I should call her and how I should ask her out(since we are also friends on the facebook she can easily expect me to know that they broke up) I'm losing my head...please help ASAP!!!THANKS

decided to call her, planned all day long, about what I'm gonna speak about, picked yp the time when she is less likely to be in the class. Called her. she ignored call and texted me back "what's up" I just couldn't think of anything better and texted back "that's rude" no answer yet. I decided. I'm not calling her again if she doesn't reply. Why the f*** do I need a girl who doesn't like me? I don't wanna be needy. I'm done with that part of my life. From now on This is my reality and if somebody doesn't want to share it...f*** them. any opinions on what mistakes I've done and what should I do next?

Guys, I'm tired of the game. I just sent her a message on the facebook about how I feel. You might say this is AFC but I don't care. No more lies, no more fake DHVs routines game plans and etc. I want a girl who will like me not the game... I guess I'm out of here. I really hate manipulations and from now on I'll be honest. Even if she rejects me doesn't matter. I don't want to lose the last thing that is I have. Myself and respect to myself which I had so much trouble gaining. Thanks everybody, hopefully I'm not going to need any more knowlege about tricks and staff like that. I'm just tired of all this.

Ill tell you where you went wrong, when you texted back "thats rude", when you said that to her you actually came off as rude yourself, it wasnt funny or playful, she was in class possibly or was busy at the moment. Its usually best to text first this day and age until you are on a phone calling basis. Im not about my wits at the moment but even something as simple as this would've improved your chance to get message back.

"hey just [insert what ever you are doing at the moment], havent talked to you for a while hows it going?"

then she'd respond back with whatever

then it woulda been an ok time to poke fun about being rude

"oh yea thats cool, btw do you always hang up on people so fast, that coulda been your mom you know..ya jerk "

Even that woulda been 10 times better, but good luck man, i hope you find what works for you.

Hey man, the whole reason i got into game was so i would not be STUCK on one girl...i had figured that being stuck on a girl never ever works because you always say the wrong things, do the wrong things, whatever.

You need to realize that "hey, if this doesnt work, its whatever. I can go chat up the four girls next to me." So many fish in the sea! (lame metaphor or whatever ya call it).

Also, im 18 also. I dont "go on dates". It never works (at this age), it somehow changes the dynamic of the interaction and you will lose all attraction. Just hang out. Its more relaxed and easier to be yourself.

A time will come if you continue to study and work to improve yourself that you will be attracting 4 to 5 girls a week. (Within the next 1 or2 months even!)

Dont call. Text. read up on text game, it will help.

Late man. Just my two cents, hope you pull some good principles from it.

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I guess I was too romantic...I believed that there might be someone who would love me for who I am. With me being absolutely honest...and her too. I guess this doesn't happen this way in real life. When I'm absolutely honest, I feel great...but I guess girls don't like me this way...when I'm using some game I get more attraaction closes and etc but that doesn't make me happy it just feels like going through a checklist...and results don't make me happy either. I never kissed a girl before I used some game, but when I did, I really felt nothing special. I had a thought in my mind : Kiss-done, next- Sex. When I was honest and just by sitting with her there I was much more happier than kissing some random girl which feel for something, but this something is definitely not me. I'm a virgin and I guess you might think this is the reason I think so...but I really have hard time admitting that the only way for me to attract a girl I like is to "game" her. This about real people and real feelings after all. This not game. This is reality.

Ok guys, I sent her a message on facebook:

ME-"What are you planning for thangsgiving?"

HER-"going to stay, got lots of work to do XD you? "

ME-"My friend and I are driving to Pennsylvania, get a thanksgiving dinner with his hostfamily(he is Chinese who ent to highschool in US) and then visit NYC. You are welcome to join) "

This was yesterday and she hasn't answered yet) what should I do? ask her out somewhere else and then bring up thanksgiving or just shut up?