Of the people I know, I see them alot posting things on facebook and other sites on each others walls. Guys who I know have fb conversations with girls who I know.

Same goes for texting and phoning. I see alot of people, even of whom I don't have the feeling they talk alot in real life, texting with each other.


But I don't do this alot. Why? 1) I don't want to think for hours about what to text someone or what to write on someones fb wall 2) I'm lazy. It'll be cool if I have some text and fb contacts with cool people but not with everyone (especially not people who I don't know well). I'm also tired of having tot text a girl always first. It turnes me off. 3) I tried it a few times in the past and it kind of frustrated me, because it didn't make people post more on my wall, or make people texting me (more often), so there's like no result.

Is this text and facebook thing realy important to hold contacts, and to make more friends? Is it like people will like you more and you'll become more popular if you actively post alot on many people's wall and text alot to many people/girls?

Is it realy an important part of flirting/ seducing?


I hope the answer is no. But if yes (and I think it will): how do I have to do it?

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Facebook is an okay primer...but I just use it to get her number.

Texting is CRITICAL. A single short text...after 3 days of no contact with her...can spark her interest immediately. I think texting is actually stronger than in person sometimes because the girl feels like she can say whatever she wants and doesn't get embarrassed. Go to the texting section of these forums and read up...it's VERY worth your while.