First date with a HB6-7. Everything fine, made out long on the street. So everyone talks about how you treat a HB10, don't call or txt for 2-3 days. Do you treat the other chicks in the same way?

Treat them how you feel they should be treated.

Treat them the same way, just maybe not as push and pull. All about the initial comfort, some people look to deep, once she starts liking you, just be yourself.

Give her a call the next day or 2, or if she does first, keep it rolling!

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We texted for a couple days, 10-15 txts a day before meeting up. The day after the 1st date she sent me a msg. I told her I had a great time, but she didn't say anything about it, and now we txt just a few times a day. I find it difficult keeping up with the txt as there's not much to talk about over txt. Is this normal or do you guys continue texting back and forth like before the date?

Maybe there's no spark? Or do you really like her? It shouldn't be hard to speak if your liking eachother, should just be fun talk really, expand a bit, throw in some jokes, even a random text.

If anything, ask to meet up, pick a day and say fancy doing something on " insert day".

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We had a great time on the first date, nice convo, but a spark!! I'm not sure, maybe a small one. We started texting nonstop again today. Lots of sexual stuff. I suggested to go to her place after halloween party, and she said she's busy. That just makes me tired of texting, if you know what I mean.

Anyway, at the end she said she wants someone to be more than casual with. I asked a female friend of mine and she says that's what every girl wants. What would you say to a girl who asks for that so early?

First off the part I put in Bold, in my opinion was a mistake, you should have just went have fun, and she would want you to go back if she had a good night, because nobody really wants a good night to end if it's possible.

"I know what you mean, you start thinking am I wasting my time?"

Girls want some kind of security, whether they want something casual or not, from experience if you say you want nothing serious to early on, or just something casual, they start thinking "he just wants me for sex", maybe you do, but enjoy the moments, and let things go, handle at your own pace, don't rush and it wont be more than casual.

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Thanks man, that was a great piece of advice. I couldn't go to her place b/c I dont have the address. I find it difficult making excuses to take her to my place or hers in a date.
We hanged out late at night yesterday. More progress compared to the other night. She says she really want to know someone before sex. Now I don't know what she means exactly by that, but I guess it's another tactic girls use to ensure they are not getting into a one night stand? I'd like to go out with her even after 1st sex.

One more question: I've had a history of sexual tension with my roomie, and she literally offered to have sex with me, but I was not interested in her at all. Would that be a DHV story to tell another girl?

What's your roomie like? If she's decent, have a go, keep it on the low, not something to DHV about though, girls may think your cheap, and use them.

What she is telling you is simply a security thing yes. She doesn't want to be used, and what women often mean by, "get to know someone before sex" is in other words, feel comfortable.

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My roomie is a HB7. But there was no sexual attraction to me. So I can say, I'm not availbale sexually to every girl I meet...

That night when I saw her, I went for the boobs slowly and she liked it. We continued texting for the next two days. Yesterday she sent me a txt, and I was busy, I replied back 6 hrs later, and also said, the other night she was sitting on my car's trunk, now it's damaged, and asked how she wanted to compensate me for that lol. But did not receive any reply. I was just kidding about the car, and just meant how she wanted to make it up to me.
I have not heard from her in a day, and I'm wondering what could be the reason... or should I call her?

Usually girls would get defensive with that, in a jokey way or should assume it's all fun and games, so don't look that deep, I'd say give it another day or 2, see what happens, if nothing buzz her, be direct, set up a meet, if she plays games or gives if and buts, onto the next you go!

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