Get a friend request from an HB10, legit promo model type. We have mutual friends and I just got divorced from a model, so she prob knows a bit about me. I was married 9 yrs, before texting, fb, so my game needs work.

I respond and say that we have lots of mutual friends, but we havent met. She responds nice and friendly that she had a baby a year ago, doesn get out much, yada, yada, but cant wait to meet me. actually says cant wait. I respond that I can arrange that and say how bout meeting at a bar thurs nite. she says busy thurs with kids trick or treat. I say I am going out sat. she says going to a wedding, says may run into me in a couple weeks.

I say heres my number, hit me up if you want to chat a bit. No reply. send another message over the weekend just asking how was the wedding? no reply.

I was thinking this. Send message titled divorce, she will obv read it. I was gonna say something like, u didnt reply to my last two messages, so I guess were fb divorced. I am out of cars since I lost two in my last divorce, but you can have the furniture.

then say seriously, heard from a mutual friend this weekend that you are a supercool chic, still hoping to get a chance to find out.

what do you think?

Divorce message...good. Saying you're out of cars and pointing out she didn't respond...not good. I'd go more for:

"You forgot to ask me how my night out was on Saturday; I guess this means we'll have to get a FB divorce. You can have the vacation home in Hawaii, but I get the pets." *(I assume she likes pets since she has a kid...)*

That says she SHOULD have asked you...since your Saturday was obviously a lot of fun...and it also will get her fired up because she will be attached to any pets (most likely). I always get a response with that sort of thing.

Also...don't send a girl YOUR number in the future unless you tell them to text you RIGHT THEN and what they should write. Otherwise...they most likely won't build up the nerve to do it. Always try to get her number.

Thanks MIG, you may have just pointed out something else I have been doing wrong. When chics ask about my nite, I just been saying stuff like, it was OK, gettin burnt out on the bars, etc, etc. While this is actually true, I am no realizing I need to rockstar it up.

Also sent the last msg. sat. night, how soon should I thrown the divorce game?

You can DHV if you think it will help, but personally I find using the right words to describe an "Okay" night can make it sound like fun/interesting. You don't have to lie and make up anything.

Send the divorce message anytime, if she's going to respond at all it won't matter how long you wait.

sent the divorce message. she replied with

"sorry, I havent been on here for a few days."

Hmm, she replied so she is at least polite...but her reply lacks any interest in what you had to say. I would now "freeze her out." Start talking to other girls publicly on Facebook (wall posts, share photos on walls and your wall, etc), put up funny/interesting Facebook statuses and cool links - but don't talk to her unless she starts it. It's a good way to get them to re-engage you and it shows you have some status.

I wouldn't reply to her "sorry, I havent been on here for a few days."

This has worked real well for me, but It helps that I have a lot of Facebook friends who are interested in what I'm doing and what I post, so when I put something good up...a lot of people comment or "like" it and the girl can see that.

Best of luck CaptainRon62.

Thanks Mig, She has me stumped. I also know she just got cheated on by baby daddy and went thru a rough break up recently. Could be why shes so flaky.