So I was in this bar with my group of friends. And there were a couple of concerts. the whole crowd was very sticky to their groups and places in the bar, but ther was this one HB9 alpha female that I just had to game.

She was very intimidating and was gaming multiple amogs, when I saw an opening I approached. She immediatly got touchy feely so I knew I had to play it hard as well.

Bucc: "You'd be so mine if I werent gay"
HB9: "aww cool you're gay, we too, look!"
HB9 and HB6 wing engage in french kissing
HB9: looking triumpantly, I knew I was being shittested
Bucc: "cool, my turn" point at my lips.
HB9: "haha, no dude, you just said you were gay. Can I hook you up to a friend of mine?

From there on it was a pretty much up hill battle. She kept touching me, pinching my cheek like I was a little cute boy or something. I enjoyed gaming her and this is good againgst approach anxiety and everything, but does anyone use this opener a lot. And what do you guys do when the chick uses it to give IOD's.

thanx. greetz

Bucc.

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I could not tread these perilous paths in safety, if I did not keep a saving sense of humor. -Admiral Horatio Nelson

shooda made out with your wing. woulda showed her

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Wow that is a really tough spot to be in. Could you have said something like, "glad to see that you are homosexual, now I don't have to lie to you to keep you from hitting on me"

Nice one Cloud.
You should have made it clear that you aren't actually gay though.

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thanx guys.

But well, thats the point... How do you continue the conversation. I just thought it was lam to just do a 180 all of the sudden....

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I could not tread these perilous paths in safety, if I did not keep a saving sense of humor. -Admiral Horatio Nelson

You lied. Never lie.

However, I've done it this way.

"Some say that I am gayer that a tree full of parrots" then proceed on talking like your gay. "Oh, I know!" "OMG *poke* thats so funny".

Sometimes if they start pointing guys out for me I'll agree, "Ya, hes good looking, but shes sexier." Then say "I love your shoes by the way" just to get them even more intrigued. I had one girl ask if I was bi.

But, I only do this for fun. If I am genuinely interested in a girl, I'm always genuine (and never fake or fax-simile thereof).

its not lying , its flirting

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I disagree.

A lie (also called prevarication, falsehood) is a type of deception in the form of an untruthful statement.

It would only be a lie if you were really gay.

Additionally, the 10th emotional need of a women is NOT being homosexual. He violated that and in my opinion had no chance of ever recovering.

Secondly, the 6th is trust. Even if she did decide to give you her number, how could she ever trust you... you started the interaction with lieing.

Never lie.

i disagree with you disagreeing.

as long as its done in a playfull manner and its made clear soon after the initial comment that it was joke then its harmless.

for instance if she asks what your job is and you say " male escort " you can have fun with it and joke about.

its not the truth but its hardly a lie

saying that youre a doctor or some shit like for the sole purpose to try to get laid IS lying and also very afc.

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I've always been genuine and it has gotten me very far with the ladies and in a way, I know if I were to walk the fine line between true and lie I'd probably fail. So I just make a point of never lieing.

But kudos for posting and good luck to the original poster next time.

oh, and LOL at disagreeing to disagree with me disagreeing.
Do we agree?

hahaha we agree

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Well great you guys agreed. But thats the whole point isnt it.

Its not lying, its flirting. That is being said the first time in the game when Mystery asks Style to use that exact same opener. Style, still naive thinks he won't get anywhere without being genuine.

In my case, it was kind of the same. I just think I should say that I'm gay, but at the same time the target should know what lies beyond is an extremety of heteroseksual force...

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Yeah dont do that

instead

walk in with a wing (Linking) and ask " Hey , would you believe me if i said we were in a civil partnership ?"

Gets some good responses and its very under the radar and your not stating your gay and cockblocking yourself