As a preface to my story I am tall white guy who is decently attractive and has a great personality (I am a master of cocky-funny before I even knew about PUA's). I didnt know about the community until (ya I know it sucks) I saw it on TV. That led me to read the game and this site. I've figured out I do many things right and do those well but also many more things wrong (which I'm attempting to correct). Now on to the good stuff.

A pivot friend from work invited me & some other friends (an hb8.5(hbtall) & hb7(hbshort)) from work out to celebrate one of her best friends b-days. I agree because i want to get the hb7. We meet at the bar and the pivot buys me a drink. Her and the bday boy start introducing me to all of their friends (all of which are HB's and too many to put into my story).

Trying to size up the room I lean back against the bar with the "im too cool for school stance/look". The pivot & bday boy come over and want to have a margarita chugging race and ask me to ref. So i count to 3 and tell them to start. The whole time my back is to the bar and an hb8(aka hbfreedrink) who i had been introduced to was over my right shoulder. She asks why I wasnt chugging with them and in a sarcastic tone advised it was because they were drinking frozen margaritas while I drank a beer (no contest a beer will win). She asks if I'd like to race her (i see she has hardly any beer left while mine is full but agree to the challenge). She had opened me! She obviously wins (which she gloats about) so i ask what she won. She doesnt know. So i say "Here you go I dont usually give these out but you won so here ya go" and gave her a hug (kino + neg).

After the hug she confesses to me that her drink was already almost empty and she had cheated. I tell her "I cant believe you'd start our relationship off with a lie". She got a serious look on her face and started apologizing and offered to buy me a new drink in exchange for forgiveness. of course I accepted and kept poking at the lie just for fun. We start to fluff talk when she admits shes embarassed and forgot my name. I act hurt and tell her my name but then also confess I forgot hers. She tried to act hurt as well but I came back with "Well I've been meeting all these beautiful ladies tonight it's hard to remember all the names". (an attempt at DHV & telling her shes beautiful in a non chalant way). Enter cockblock #1.

A guy she knows but who isnt with the bday party people comes and starts talking to her. She turns to him and starts talking to him. I did what I thought Mystery or Style would do... Keep my value and walked off without saying a word. AS luck would have it i run into the hbtall & hbshort from work! I know the HB7 well but not so much the hb8.5. They insist i dance with them. Jackpot hbfreedrink is seeing us dance.

Because the original reason i went out was to work game on hbshort I decided if I am gunna dance w/ the 2 girls I would need to put my BACK to hbshort & front to hbtall (who i still hardly knew). We start dancing and before long hbtall has her ass up against me and is grinding hardcore. Then she puts my hand on her inner thigh on the dance floor (MAJOR KINO!!). Because hbtall and I are dancing in sync it kinda makes hbshort out of sync w/ us and makes her mad, so hbshort grabs my shoulder and spins me around to face her (ignoring her paid off woot!) and starts to just grind and dance all over me. At this point I am feeling quite pimp that everythings going 100% as planned so I wanna leave on my terms and leave them wanting more. I walk away right in the middle of the song and say I need another drink. Both girls are shocked as if they had never had someone walk away from them in their lives.

So as i waltz back up to the bar to try and order a drink hbfreedrink grabs me and asks "how i could start off the relationship cheating on her" (again we didnt know each other but maybe 30 minutes at this point). I told her that jealousy isnt a very attractive quality (neg). Then I ask if she even remembers my name in a cocky funny way (which she did) but i kept making fun that she really didnt which lead her to get the sad puppy dog hurt look on her face again. To apologize to me she offered to buy me another drink (SCORE!) After she gets the drink she says "I'll show you how to really dance" and grabs my hand and leads me onto the dance floor that i left not more than 10 minutes earlier, and parades her and i hand in hand in front of the 2 girls i was dancing with. She starts to dance and grind her ass into me and i see her swipe her hair from the shoulder I have my head above. I see this as a major IOI (i mean shes giving me her bare neck!) and go in for the shoulder/back of the neck kiss. Before I can kiss her neck a 3rd time she grabs the back of my head (shes still got her ass to my front) and we start making out on the dance floor. Enter cockblock #2.

Her best friend that she had come w/ to the club was so fucking drunk and blitzed she rushes onto the dance floor yelling and screaming that she wants to go home (GOD DAMNIT WHERE WAS A WING WHEN YOU NEED ONE!) and drags my girl off the dance floor. She beckons me to follow her (mistake 1 i made) to the bar,which i do. As shes closing her tab she apologizes as says she has to go. I say "we should do this again" and she agrees and starts to give me a # but the says the worst thing possible. "My phone is broke so that is her (pointing to her drunk friend) #. Call there and get my # from her". We start to make out a lil more and then she leaves. So i # close but w/ the drunk friend (who wont remember me's #!!!).

At this point I am pissed off (i know bad frame of mind) but I figure i still have the other 2 girls who saw me dancing and making out so I start to look for them. I'll be damned if they arent dancing w/ 2 other dudes (FUCK!!!!). I go back to the bar w/ my beer and resume my back to the bar "I dont give a fuck" position when hbtall walks up to order a drink. We chit chat some and she knocks over a beer on the bar. I hand her some napkins and neg her about being clumsy. She giggles. I ask her where her "gorilla" was(the guy she was dancing w/ was like 6'6, 280, and hairy). SHe laughed and started making fun of him also. I should have taken that as a hint she didnt want to be around him but as a AFC I let it go and didnt ask her if shed like to spend time w/ me instead or try to save her. Gorilla walks up w/ a drink for her and takes her hand and leads her to the dance floor. I lost all leverage when hbfreedrink left the building =(. I went from being the big pimp w/ 3 girls fighting for his affection to the lonely guy at the bar.

I know I did a lot of things right (at least i think i did) but the few things i did wrong GREATLY outweighed EVERYTHING i did right and fucked me over for the whole evening. If anyone can give me some advice on how I could have gotten hbfreedrink to stay or a different contact method. Also, if anyone has any suggestions how i could have gotten hbtall and/or short back.

I am proud of myself for my first time putting some theories in play but I am not satisfied w/ my overall results.

I apologize for the length of this post but I appreciate you reading and any help/advice you can provide me.

AFC Niuban

bump... still need some advice! =)