Ive been talking to this girl for a while, and she had been looking forward to hanging out with me on saturday which i did, finally at the end of the night she started confronting me about being a playa, and i was trying to play it off, long story short i started acting like a afc because i wanna sex her , and she flipt the script on me and made me feel like i was losing, so i kicked her out of my car and made her walk home....she told me she would never talk to me again, so i stopped calling and txting her , and now she is going crazy because ive not been communicating with her....what should i do from here?

hahahha wow kicked her out of the car. great move! as long as she was out of line and it sounded like she was. plus all her friends will hear about it too. def recoverd from being an afc. from what i have been reading very few people are able to recover. i also love that you are punishing her by not callling or texting her. is she contacting you? how often? what is she sayin?

with the limited info i have, i would send her text after making her wait a little while that said something like:

that was pretty funny how you made me kick you out of my car, maybe ill give you another chance, how are you gonna make it up to me? or something where u come off as cocky, funny, and dont care if you never see her again. but i am pretty new to this stuff so i might be wrong.

She would call like 5 times a day different #'s send txts like " your ignoring me now like i did something wrong", and last night she txtd me and she wrote "call me please",...and i told her i would call in 15 mins but i waited a hour and a half to call........now this morning she said i took too long to call, so i replied and said it was her fault for falling asleep, then she wote" if your not feeling me, let me know,your not a baby you can open your mouth,....then i replied with ill call you later maybe ill give you another chance, then she said to not try to player her she didnt do shit wrong, and i havent replied..................

Please don't tell her this^^ Im sure she didnt think getting kicked out of the car and walking home was funny. In fact, I'm surprised she even contacted you again after that. I dont really know the situation that well so I wont give you advice on what you should do. But for the future what you should not do is let her get to you the way she did. Kicking her out and making her walk home? Come on bro, not only is that somewhat inhumane, but letting her get under your skin like that is total afc. You've got to keep your cool better than that. No disrespect intended btw. Just calling it how I see it.

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Ok so i replied with a totally diff comment, " i hope your smiling, if not think about me,
Her:ha. who do you think you are, i was already smiling, i love you though.

Me: what do you want from me? just keep it 100 all games aside

Her : just to be there, is that hard to belive


But i dont just want to be there cuz now i feel like she put me in the friend zone, is it a shit test? cuz i know she really likes me, or should i end it?


maybe i should be friends and act like i got another gf to get her jealous? any ideas?? thanks

The thing is, its hard to give you advice when you haven't really talked about what you want out of it. Do you want her to be your girlfriend or a fuck buddy or just a friend? Its apparent she still very interested in you so I don't think it would make any sense to end it at this point. I also dont think she put you in the friend zone. She just still has the player thing on her mind and doesn't want to feel like shes just another girl to you.

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Im looking for fuck buddy on this one.....im willing to make her my gf to fuck her if i have to since i really like her, but i def. want sex!!! lol ...so where should i take it from here bro?

Just hold your ground, be confident, make it known that you're into her sexually, stay focused on your goal, and dont let her get in your head.
As long as you stay out of your own way and just let things happen you should be fine.

Just make sure your conversations go somewhere. Don't keep conversating forever without any sexual escalation.

Keep posting. I'm interested to see how it goes.
And goodluck

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Dude this is messed up, if everything you saying is true, there is something wrong with this girl: you kicked her out of your car and made her walk all the way home and now she is constantly calling you.... STALKER/OBSESSED?

If you wanna fuck her, just tell her to come over I'm sure she would run to your house, like I don't even know why all the guys are giving advice on how to "game" her, that's OVER KILL, she is already sold, just tell her straight up "hey do you wanna come over my house watch a movie, but you will have to keep your hands to yourself" I will bet you whatever amount of money you want that she will say yes without hesitation...... but man do you wanna deal with the fall out? .......

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dude even if you are just in the friends zone i believe she is attracted to you anyways...
sometimes girls just dont want to leave the friends zone because they are afraid from all kinds of stuff like to be thought of as a slut or stuff like that...
in these cases i believe the only solution for getting her is literatly seducing her physically... like start touching her push and pull her non stop some point she will get horny and then it doesnt matter if your her friend or her dad she will just be horny...

@venu what do you mean by deal with the fallout?


and this is what i did she called me twice yesterday , didnt answer both of the times, called her like 25 mins later, and the convo was a little strange i can tell she was happy i called her and shocked. She was being kind of quiete, and i was just trying to keep my cool,. So we got off the phone , i decided to text her and ask her if she wanted to be my gf( i wanted to escalate), and she txt me back saying she will rip her heart out and give it to me,..........now that im 100 she's attracted, we kept texting, and i tried to talk about sex vi text. but i can tell sh didnt want to talk about it because she would change the subject when she responded, ...i kinda feel like i messed up by asking her to be my gf because she's not chasing me anymore.....


and another thing the times that i have talked to her before about sex, she said she just wants a man to keep there mouth shut....like as a fuckbuddy.......

ummmm reality check buddy when a girl tells you she will rip her heart out and calls non stop everyday..... there is something REALLY WRONG WITH HER!

WTF????? Is this Junior High or something, asking to be a gf over text? who does that? and the girl telling you she "will rip her heart out", once again RED LIGHT THERE IS SOMETHING REALLY WRONG WITH HER!
That is not attraction that is OBSESSION and PSYCHO behavior! RED LIGHT!
You wanna her to keep chasing you ..... man .... you don't know what you are getting yourself into.... next thing you know she will break in into your house ....

oh man this whole situation is so f*ed.... And by you making her "chase you" even more you are making it more DANGEROUS every second.... and no you didn't misread DANGEROUS.

Just be careful, if when you "break up" or "she gets mad at you" from what you told us.... you should basically move to another country....

I'm taking this thread personal because I had a similar situation and by ignoring her and then giving her a little validation her obsession grew even bigger, which I should have realized much sooner.

You have two choices:

1. Keep doing what you are doing and learn from your own mistakes... just be careful

2. Learn from other's mistakes (me) and cut every single connection with this girl, don't even give an explanation just cut every single connection you have with her, if you don't the fall out will be a disaster.....

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@venu lol your right bro,.....she got mad yesterday because i took a little oo long to reply to one of her text messages, and she said to quit playing her that she will hurt me and a bunch of other stuff lol,....this did not go as planned haha....on to the next

............... well now you will know if the girl giving you A LOT of attention, you know where it is leading...

Tip: if you are at school which I assume you are, try to not be seen with girls for a month or so, because the psycho girl will ruin it, either by talking shit about you or telling the girl to back away because you are "hers".

And if you are in junior or high school where you see the girl almost everyday, then give her some excuse why you can't see each other, because she won't leave you alone .... just google "break up excuses" im sure you can find a good excuse on there.

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