Ok there is this girl that im trying to Im interested in and she is either really hard to get or shes giving me fake IOIs cuz she wants my attenton. Either way she is a challange so I want her all the more for it.

Back story is one of my friends has a freind who doesnt live in america. She comes over once in a while tho. Last time she was here we met and talked, I wasnt sarging her so we just had a convo, I found her interesting and she found me interesting but she left the country so I was like whatever.

Last night I went clubbing with friends and she was there in our group. After saying hi and hugging every girl I knew there (which is a lot) I went over and said hi to her cuz she was pretty much staring me down since I walked in.

HB9: U remember me?
ME: sure, so ur back in the country?
HB9: bla bla bla

Later in the night she walked up to me again. This time she was touching my arm and back every 2 seconds (IOI) and staring my directly in the eye for like a good ten seconds every time she talked (IOI) and kept telling me I should drink more (IOI?).

HB9: bla bla bla
ME: *want to escalate* Do you think men or women lie more?
HB9: I donno, thats a dumb question
ME: ok, I just though it related to what you just said
HB9: It didnt. bla bla bla
ME: *later* would you believe me if I told you I was psychic?
HB9: No
ME: think of a number between 1 and 10, has to be the first one to pop into ur head. Is it 7? (does this actually work btw?)
HB9: No
(omg, this girl is so difficult)
ME: bla bla bla....
HB9: *cuts me off* sry I love this song i gtg dance

I was like ok whatever an just went about my business. I ended up making out some drunk girl but she was way too drunk for me to find her that attractive so thats all that happened. Funny story actually if you wanna read:

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ME: *standing there*
HB7: *Staring at me*
ME: *Decide to open* U wanna help me out with something
HB7: huh?
ME: Do you think my friend here looks like a drug dealer?
HB7: what?
ME: I just asked if you thought...
HB7: Ur hot
ME: Um, Ok
HB7: I like your jacket
ME: thanks, what are you supposed to be anyway? (It was a halloween party) A taxi driver?
HB7: no.. bla bla bla
ME: ok cool
HB7: you should buy me a drink
ME: I dont buy girls drinks
HB7: why? cuz u think ur too cool for that?
ME: They buy me drinks
HB7: so u have to do is stand there and they approach u, right?
ME: yeah isnt that what happened here?
HB7: no (by this point she was touching me everywhere, and I mean EVERYWHERE)
ME: come dance

basically after making out on the df she forced me to saver number, still have it saved as "No Name" in my phone.

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Not sure if my HB9 saw us but whatever. After I returned to our group she start talking to me again (IOI?) and touching my arm again and standing way too close (IOI?)

HB9:bla bla bla
ME: (something cocky, cant remember exactly)
HB9: Ur such an ass
ME: Am not, im just confident
HB9: *playfully* I should hit u for that (I think I negged her at some point)
ME: you wouldn hit me
HB9: *punch in the gut* (what?)
ME: ow, that hurt
HB9: Ur a man, u can take it
ME: yeah good thing I have a solid six pack to protect me
HB9: I didnt feel a six pack
ME: thats cuz you punch like a girl
HB: *punch me in the gut again* (this time it actually hurt bit)
ME: ow, you owe me big time for that
HB9: Im sorry, here *kisses me on the cheek* (IOI?)
ME: pfft, thats nothing you owe me more than that
HB9: *kisses me on the cheek* there you go you got two
ME: yeah that was two of nothing
HB9: whatever, bla bla bla
ME: bla bla bla

After a while convo dried up so I went and hit on some other girl. Is that too far? cuz she was kinda ignoring me for the rest of the night but still glancing my way every 2 secs, it was only like 30min before th club closed anyway.

Anyway, now I know shes gonna be at a party im going to on sat so what do I do? and what do you guys think in general?

Thanks for reading

Nah, I wouldn't say it's too far. Seems like she's trying to decide if you're a prize catch or not. IE: worth her time/social value. So you need to DHV, and speaking with plenty of other girls and having fun conversations is the perfect way to do that*. You've gotta act as though she's just another one of your girls you communicate with. Subconsciously she'll be attracted by this, she'll want your full attention, because NO girl EVER wants to be 'second'. However - you have to play it smooth and not force the issue.

* This doesn't mean kissing every girl around you in front of her, or getting incredibly drunk. It means literally having fun and creating a positive vibe around yourself that others (and her) will be attracted to.

As always - escalate. Not sure if you're using kino? But either way, start. If she's standing close by, have your arm/hand very lightly touch hers. If she leaves her arm/hand where it is, she doesn't mind your contact. If she steps back - you've got more work to do.