I already posted this in the newbie section, but I'm going to repost here as well.

I met an HB9 through a mutual friend the last night. We all go to my place, have drinks, etc. I run solid game on her, teasing her a good amount, dancing with her, then pushing her away and saying "you really are like my best friend now."

She is digging me, I can tell, as she starts asking to try on my clothes. Then she asks for my number, I give her mine and get hers (which I made her write and she left all sorts of little stars and shit there)

We hang some more, and eventually end up in the kitchen alone. I was going to hold back on a kiss, but I get into this spiel about being a good cook, and she asks if I'd cook for her. I get a little romantic and describe how I'd go about it, all the while moving closer, shifting my gaze from her eyes to her lips.
She shit tests me, saying I probably cook the same thing for every girl I have over, and I shrug it off and stick to the story.
When I'm pretty close, she leans in an kisses me. I go with it for a second, then pull away, and keep talking, teasing her. We end up making out for a while after that, lots of feeling, until she says she has to go to the bathroom...

It's pretty late now, and the third friend (who my other buddy completely struck out with) is bitching to leave. So they leave, and as I say bye, she whines about not having my number. I turn it around on her, by saying, "I know you have it. I'm gonna call you now, and when my name pops up you have to kiss me again." yada yada, you know what happens. She tells me to call her this week, and as we make out one last time, she reaches her hand right down my pants and grabs me...

Now I know this is a long set up for a question, but here it is...
She was drunk (giggling and hiccoughs but not blackout), and while I really did feel a connection to her, did I ruin my chances by making out with her? I'm thinking of calling tomorrow (2days later), and just blatently inviting her over for me to cook that dinner I promised her... but is that suplicating? She's a sorority girl, so I imagine she loves teasing guys... and I wonder if I'd be better off not calling her at all, and keeping the door open for when I see her randomly again...

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Saint Boon

Anyone got something for me?

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Oh, and if I call tomorrow (36 later), should I *67 it? (private number)

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Saint Boon

no dude. If you had a strong bond shell be happy your calling and if you *67 she might not even pick up the phone. If your nervous about calling her tell her youve got a minute cause you got class and I wanted to check on you to see how you doing today and call her beautiful, babe, or give her a nickname.

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Learn from my mistake...If a girl is interested in you and your interested in her, get her number before you get drunk.

Don't cook her dinner right away. Take her out the first couple times, otherwise you give her the goods right away and you want to keep her waiting, because you're the prize.

She is probably interested in you, so I wouldn't worry about it being a tease, but if she was really drunk, then she might not be AS into it as last night, although aside from telling her that if your name popped up she would have to kiss you again (I personally don't like to sound like I'm asking for a kiss, I'm in control, she asks), you ran excellent game from the sound of it.

Do call her, but don't *67 it, just be natural. If you don't call, then you are just giving into AA, or at least looking like it to her. Women like men with balls.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Yeah good point... I just don't know what else to do with her...
I guess she gave me an opening, when she asked me to come down to her school and be in a pledge "auction" (whatever the fuck that is) at her sorority on wednesday. But I fucked up and told her I'd only do it if she promised to buy me (in a cocky funny way, but still...) She kept bugging me to tell her what I was going to wear, and I wouldn't tell her, so I could try using that, saying something like, "so what am I supposed to wear to your auction on wednesday?' as a way to hang with her... but is that lame? And I doubt I can get a wingman for wed night (damned midterms), so I'd be even more lame showing up for that shit alone. Got any other ideas? (gotta give her a good reason to drive 20 min up here, since i dont have a car either)

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Saint Boon

I wouldn't call her babe, or beautiful or even nickname her, that early. It shows too much interest. She has to earn that stuff, you don't give her validation right away. That is why you don't ask her what you are supposed to wear to the auction, you just say, "So, what's the deal with this auction you wanted me to be in?" and then depending on what she says, you can tell her you're free if she still needs you. Then just show up wearing your best peacock wear, or if you don't peacock much, then you can ask her in a cocky funny way, what she'll be wearing, just don't make it sound like you want her approval, or you'll be DLVing.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Yeah, I know better than to reward her with a "baby" or a "beautiful" until after sex. But i doubt i'll have a wingman to go to the auction with, so i'm gonna call her to cancel on the auction, and then try to parlay that into a date on thursday or whatever... but you got any cheap/ fun ideas, cuz i haven't got a car.

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Saint Boon

And she's going to have to drive up here, so that rules out coffee.
I could invite her to my buddy's night club I guess, that would probably get her to come up...

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Saint Boon

Why do you feel you need a wing to go to the auction? Take a look at what that says. You need to push yourself past any comfort zones you have and just go out alone and just be alpha and get all the girls there to love you and then you've got massive social proof. The great thing about being alone with a bunch of girls, is that it isn't very suspicious that you are hanging out with them, because you don't have any guy friends there, and you can just be wickedly entertaining and she'll want you even more if all her friends want you too.

Why does her driving mean that you can't have coffee?

For a good cheap idea, check out my mall date ideas.
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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye