Hi Guys!! I was seeing this girl for 6 months, kept it casual. See each other once a weekish. Great girl, good times. Then it cooled on both our sides and things died down. We bumped into each other last sat and the chemistry was undeniable. So she came to mine sunday and dropped a bombshell.... she has a boyfriend. We both admitted we like each other, and we are gonna have a bit of fun. What i am hoping for is advice on how to get her wanting me more than her b/f ( she is deff keen ) Coming to mine tomoz for a few hours, advice please ?

Personally, I'd say be friends right now. I would never encroach on a girl who has a boyfriend. Nothing more than being friends and hanging out in a casual way, she'll come when she is ready.

Yeah its hard cause I really like this girl. But I told her to give me a break for a bit, and if she doesnt wanna be with her boyfriend we will talk. She says she isn't sure, so I told her we are done with this until she is single. Thanks for the reply bro.

there must be something wrong with her current bf for her to be spending time with you; why dont you ask her what that is and capitalise on that weakness; i am sure i have seen threads here on how to pick up girls who have, or say they have a bf; not suggesting that you start a relationship with her til she ditches her bf, just think there might be special PUA ways to hurry the process of the ditching along a little - do you not want to spend a bit of extra effort making her see how she would be better off with you cos you are such a wonderful guy, and how you have all these other women after you so she better get in there quick b4 you are snapped up by someone else...i think you need to be a bit more proactive anyway, plus if she calls you or wants to come round whilst she is still seeing this other guy, dont be available be busy, virtually always; if she is keen it will make her keener if she cant have you unless she needs to make some significant effort

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