Ok there is this girl that is the best friend of my best girl - friend.
now always i had this talk with her on facebook like we gotta meet sometime for coffee and bla bla..
but it was always when i was afc and now that i learned some stuff i talked to her again and it went something like this ( in facebook):

me: "hey whats up ?"
she: "hiiiiiiiiiiiiiii how are you??"
me: "cool , whats up with maya(her best friend wich is also my best friend wich is currently travelling in india so thats why i asked her about her)"
she: " i think she is having the best time"
me:"omg i think we should have some more things in common then maya"
she:"i am sure we have a lot of things in common that we didnt expose yet.."
me: "so why dont we have a coffee and expose them"
she: " we should defently have that coffee, im just busy lately with work and stuff but we will find time for that"
me: "ok so ill call you on sunday..."

thats the facebook conversation. after that in monday i text her on my phone:
me: " how are you ?"
she:" great!!! hows your vacation?? when are we sitting for coffee?"
me: "tommorow noun..."
she: " ohhh i just dont know if im going to work that time, why dont i call you tommorow and tell you ..."
me:" no way , my time is to important to make half plans. i only plan things that are sure to happen."
she:"oh ok so ill call you tommorow and we will make a sure plan"

then in the evening on facebook she comes like this:
"im so sorryyyyyy i just dont know when i work only the night before its very diffucult for me"
me:"i think you took what i said to hard"
she:"im sorry i just get really emotional im a person with very high emotional intellligence....."
then she says: "lol why did i say that its stupid"
me:" you know ive noticed something about you... everytime you say something interesting, you apologize.. i really connect to girls with high emotional intelligence."
she:" ok ill keep that in mind.... anyways im going to sleep... tommorow ill speak with you and we will make a sure plan!"
me: " ok, but dont text me, call me so if you ditch maybe ill forgive you if ill hear your voice"
she: " lol cool.... sure... lol.... good night"


now she didnt call for 2 days since then. what am i suppose to do?!!

You are not exposing your armor for the possibility of utter rejection, you should do that, it shows confidence and women like confidence.

An example of what I'm talking about is:
Would you like to go out with me? (Sure, when, where?) (At this place at this time? etc..)

But since you already had some dialog about meeting I guess you should add the place and time directly like:
Would you like to go out with me on TheDay at TheTime?

Cheers.

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AFC from hell

i already did that and she keeps saying she cant know for sure because her work arangement and stuff... its like she tells me : i cant make any sure time, and i will let you know when i can. so where is my controlling the situation now>? its like she put me in the afc corner in a very smooth way and i will defenetly not chase her

She will never know when, women never do, women love US MEN to know WHEN.

Just chill, you obviously will meet her again and don't look too available and needy until then. Stay offline from facebook chat for a few days, don't let her see you every day on there.

She will start thinking about you if you disappeared for a while, and then you come back and really ask her out. Women love to be asked out and you still havent really done it. You've just mumbled her out.

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AFC from hell

thanks thats great advice