This is the greatest and most frustrating thing that has ever happened to me. It's finally clicked, all the theories just happen when I'm talking to a chick, no effort required.

This happened one night when I was chilling outside DQ and talking to a friend of mine, who was the manager in charge that night. While talking this chick that works front counter comes out side and tries to get my friend to do something for her, I turned to her and reminded her that she'd been working there about six months, "You can do it herself. The adults are talking right now." This trigged something in her. The next thing I know is that she is trying to make me qualify her in anyway possible.

I thought, why won't you go away you fat neucence? then I realized I had disqualified her many times, and I was unintentionally negging her. Damn the theory of you want what you can't have!

I've been treating all chicks as though they were just another fat chick I didn't want to be around and bam, every one of them is trying to make me like them. These are only the chicks that I'm recently meeting, the ones I'm friends with are treated as another one of the guys.

I know we all reach this point and all feel like we need to tell the world, "Just remember, she's no better than an obnoxious fat chick." It's true they react the same way.

Thanx to all that have helped me get to this point, and good luck to all of you not there yet. The journey does become easier with practice.

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sounds like you've internalized the the lessons, guys remember what you are learning here is not some hardcore black belt ninja secret stuff, its just basically a way to gain self respect, you've all done it before (probably to girls you just weren't attracted to, have you ever asked you're self why is that girls im not attracted to chase me and i cant seem to get the ones that im attracted too ?, well its pretty simple, when you were around girls you didn't want you acted with self respect, where as when it came to the pretty ones you were doing you're whole AFC thing.)

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a good plan today is better than a perfect plan tomorrow

Whoa i wrote that down, Sound good to keep in mind.