Hey,

How could I react on this one to keep it going a little. Some background information.
This is about a colleague of mine at work. She had a picture of her brother which I also know quite well..

Goes as follows (Her brother riding on his new scooter):

PUA: Look him going!

HB: haha yeah nice huh?

PUA: So you were stalking him too.. (referred to another evening at work where I called her out for stalker) You could go with me on my trip as my paparazzi.. You can take pictures of me. As a reward you also get a glass of wine every once in a while, but only when you do your best.

HB: Hahaha! Where are you going? Ooh I know. Next week isn't it?

PUA: Yeah next week The glasses of wine you drink may not influence the quality of my pictures huh? No excuses! Otherwise i'll spank you on the bottom and I'll send you back home in my suitcase

HB: Woow #my name#, spanking on the bottom.. I didn't knew this side of you hahaha! I almost don't dare to join you

This is the conversation.. Could be difficult to understand since my english isn't that fluent..

Help me out here please.

say:
haha. I make it do what it do baby. YEH MEN

-that's relevant to me because it's a popular saying from the radio.

do you get the idea?

Well it's not familiar in our country.. I live in Holland..

Is something like this also ok?

- Well you hardly know any side of me haha..

Not really it suggest you dont know eachother, what you want is her to feel like she has known you for years.

I would probably be like, "what incased you enjoy it ?"

Im not that good in english.. What does incased mean? More like: Why do you enjoy it? Or how do I need to see this?

"Im not that good in english.. What does incased mean?" - It's okay, neither is Jtaz (just kiddin' mate) ...Incased doesn't mean what you want.

"In case" means something like: if something should happen

An alternative way to say the line Jtaz wrote

"Are you afraid you'll enjoy it?"

Thats a good one! Haha. I posted it. Main problem is that she has a BF for a while so I won't go into it too much.. She needs to see by herself that she is missing out on me.

Yep my spelling & grammar is terrible, you wouldn’t believe i am from London and my first language is English would you hahaha, actually this is why i usually run messages to girls through Microsoft word & Google

I did indeed mean In Case not incased hahaha

Cheers
Jtaz

Didn't got any reaction so far.. Maybe it was a bit too much? haha

Well she replied.. First my sister

- Sister: Look out brother. You could lose your job on this one

- HB: She's right. I won't respond on this one :p

- Sister: XD

- PUA: Hahaha. Was just making fun :*(

Was I really out of the line here? Or is the problem she doesn't want to answer the question?

Don't want to lose my job on this one haha

Both your sister & the HB are being playful, look at the :p at the end, which means they "probably" do not think you where out of line and where just joking around themselves.

Solution ....I didn't realize you were posting this all on her wall! Definitely transition to a message, I'm siding with your Sister. It's great to start on a wall, but you're just going to come off creepy if you flirt too much with someone there...and she's not going to want to come off as easy either.

Yep just like you i didn’t realise he was posting on her wall, i assumed he was messaging her... like you i agree flirting on wall posts is a bad idea, besides other things you are not likely to get a genuine response from her otherwise she risks coming off as slutty.

I don’t think this has gone too bad as they were both being playful and not mega serious, as i mentioned previously but hopefully he has learnt a lesson to not post flirty messages on their wall!

Jtaz

Ok I won't do that anymore. It was a comment on a picture at her profile.. Just don't like to start a convo on these sites out of nowwhere if I don't have a reason. I see her around 2-3 times a week at work..

She commented my sister also she wants to have me at work so she could tease me. I guess i've scored big enough in this one haha.

She definitely enjoyed it and she has a BF so I think im doing good enough so far..