Just back from a very weird morning of sarging. Everything just seemed to fall into place so nicely- well until the end.

I was in town and I stopped a girl in the street and asked for the time and as luck would have it she didnt have a watch but she was also curious about the time because she had 2 hours to waste. Nice one! She was more than delighted to have someone to stand around talking to. I couldnt believe my luck. A HB8 who wants to waste two hours with me.

So we talk for a while and build up some comfort and I suggest we go grab a bite to eat... she tells me she has no money.. Oh oh. Obviously Im not paying for her. So I suggest we go back to my flat and grab a sandwhich there, hell I only live around the corner. But not really. Really my mate lives around the corner. I always wing for him so its time he paid the favour back. I go to the bathroom, where I call my mate to tell him the story and tell him Im taking her back there and all he has to do is pretend hes my mate that hes staying with me for a few days while he gets himself sorted.

Fast forward 15-20 minutes and we are back at the flat with her and its the same old problem. My mate leaves us and goes down town so we have the place to ourselves but as usual I move to quick.

Im kino'ing really well, teasing her etc and then I test her to see is she ready for a kiss, nice one she is, so I go in for the kill. And she liked it. I liked it too. We make out and she semi strips. I notice the time- its 5 minutes to 2. Shes supposed to be meeting her friends in 5 minutes. So we scramble around trying to get her dressed and out the door. I didnt even take her number. Not that she offered either.

So my problem, I really really cant help myself, the second I see shes ready for the kiss I always go in. Sometimes this works in my favour sometimes it doesnt.

But I want to be able to hold back and build up more tension. On my own part I think its just an insecurity thing, kinda like a voice telling me I might never get another chance and just to take it while I can. THats the only way I can describe it.

Does anyone else have this problem, or can anyone offer me any advice or techniques on how to get around this.

I know when Im doing it that its the wrong thing to do, but I just cant help myself.

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Everything I have just said is related to the UK and some parts of Ireland. Trying it out may make you look like a bumbling twat in your own country. So be careful.

ummmm i dont understand what the problem is. dont wait, when shes ready do it. no reason to drag it out. plenty of other ways to increase attraction other then holding out a kiss.