Yesterday I talked to a couple of people on the bus to town, which was good ..

Got into town, approached a couple of girls.. During the time I approached them, I was in a rush because - I found out (just as I got into town) that a couple of my mates were in town and were going soon.. So I left the girls..

My mates ended up going round town with me, as a result.. I didn't approach anyone else because I was with them!

But it doesn't matter..

Lessons

- Go out by myself
- What's the point in over-thinking things??


TODAY:

Just had a bath. Ironed my clothes. Heading out for day game .

Also sorting out my tan and getting my hair cut tomorrow..

You should have done a few approaches (e.g. 3 sets) with your buddies around. It actually helps since you already seem like a social guy. When I do that kind of thing, I sometimes introduce my friends to the girls with something like "Where are my manners? They are X and Y." without ever introducing myself. It's an unusual situation since you never actually introduced yourself and that way you are forcing an IOI from them because they have to ask for your name. It automatically puts you in an alpha position where you are not seeking rapport but others seek rapport with you. On top of that it makes your friends look good, too, since they are hanging out with a cool guy like you.

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Wow scouser, you are an inspiration. I don't know if you were always a social guy but you seem to have really moved up. I've never heard girls calling me hot but i think i am decent looking so I hope i can have success like you. I just need to start actually getting out there and having fun! Also i need to get access to more parties, been lacking that lately.

Also, how do you get the confidence/know when to kiss the girl?

Imagine there's a pendulum. If you hit it, it takes time until it gets back in balance. That's the same with kissing. If you do it once, it will be difficult. But if you do it again and again and again after only a short period of time, that pendulum never has a chance to stop and you only have to add a little bit of energy each time to keep it swinging. That's what I realized and how I see things. Get over it once, it will be so much easier the second time and every time after that.

So just push yourself beyond your comfort zone to do it the first time. It doesn't matter if you feel awkward or nervous or anything. Just get over with it. It will get easier from there on.

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Yeah, you know you're right, i never really thought about it like that. I have trouble leaving my comfort zone. I've never been rejected, but tis not cuz i'm magic, its cuz i was a pussy. lol

Although today I did step out of my comfort zone by riding past a girl and saying "quick, push me!" She just gave me a confused look so i was like "we can take turns!" It was a bit of a failure since she didn't push me or anything but it got a laugh which i take a s a good thing.

There are two ways, either you will feel the right time to kiss a girl because you are both attracted to each other and your body can feel it. Or you can challenge her, ie. If you get up and dance now, I'll give you a kiss

Yesterday, I didn't end up going out (it got dark too early and I left it a bit late )

So, today - I am going to sort out my tan (now).. if there are any cute girls, I will talk to them

Once I have done that I am going to town to get clothes.. if there are cute girls there I will approach them and go direct ..

Also, have a look at this video, it helped me a lot..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-HFTh7Sk ... r_embedded

Just got back from my tanning session (sunbed).. I have got a tan!

On the way there, I approached nearly everyone I walked past asking for directions or the time and then turning it into a mini conversation. There were no girls on the way.. in the tanning place there was a hot older woman, talked to her for a bit, was playful, good solid sub-communications..

On the way out, I saw a 20 year old smiled at held solid eye contact as she was going into her tanning part..

I then walked a different route.. where a university is . I approached an HB8 asian woman (19 years old) - I'm 17. Conversation:

ME: Excuse me, do you know where XXX park is?
HB: No sorry, I think there is a park that way tho..
HB: But I never heard of that park
ME: Haha.. neither have I! Thats why I need directions..
HB: (she smiles) I don't know sorry

(bear in mind this girl didn't speak english that well, she couldn't understand what I was saying..)

ME: Wait your being too nice (smile and pause), I came over here just to flirt with you.
HB: (blushes and smiles) waa?
ME: I thought you were cute so I had to come over and say hey..
HB: Aww thank you but I am too old
ME: Guess how old I am
HB: 16
ME: Naa 11... (pause) Am joking I am 31
HB: Tell me truth (smile)
ME: haha 17..
HB: See, I am too old, I am 19 years old and I can tell you are on half term

I talk a little bit longer then I shake hands and make introductions..

HB: It was nice meeting you
ME: You too

That wasn't as bad as I thought it would be!

I see a hot girl walking down a different route, try to catch up with her but she gets on the bus.. I pass a university and see two HB8's surrounded by a few people, they looked so bored.. I came in with a good energy..

ME: Hey, have any of you girls got the time (smile on my face)
HB: (getting their phones, smiling at each other) blablabla time blablabla

Some woman walked past and gave me the time because she heard me (speaking loud being dominant)

So I just said: Alright, thanks girls cya later..

I walk further up and see a solid HB8 surrounded by a load of people, I talk to her for a little bit (surprisingly no one cared ) but don't go direct because I was thinking too far ahead about the consequences..

Lessons Learnt:

- Take it in steps, don't have anything pre-planned because you will put pressure on yourself to say it..
- Have a role model (Badboy)



TOWN

I am going to have a bath. Put some fresh clothes on. Buy some clothes and do some day game .

That age thing reminded me of something. You should make circumstances like always her problem. If you notice that she's older and she even says something like "I'm older than you" or "I'm too old" or "I'm too old for you", your best bet is to (if you can) preemptively say something like "I usually don't see girls older than myself, but I'll make an exception for you." Suddenly you're not the one who is too young but she is the one who's too old. The situation has become her problem, you are the one who's "putting up" with her situation. PUAs often do this when a girl is shorter or taller than them. That one is a bit easier to do since it can be visually perceived. So, the next time you are talking to a girl and she's taller than you, try saying something like "I usually don't date girls that are taller than me." If she even says something like "I'm not that much taller than you." and laughs, it's an IOI and a qualification attempt. She wants to milden that fact in your eyes and make you forget it so you like her regardless. Try this out sometime when you have the chance. Remember, try to come over as sincere or else it will just make you look like an ass.

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Thats great advice, thanks ..

Anyways, I just had a bath. Am off to town

Defiantly listen to what B-Fusion had to say on that .

But coming from the same city it has never , ever stopped me , thinking back to it Everyone I have got off with has been older than me ! My best has got to be a 7 year age gap ! ( and im not shiting you on that one )

But I always lie about my age ( I add 2 years)

and this routine ( i think its off swingcat)

her Your too young

you Ok I will make you a deal if you change my nappys I will change yours grandma

or

you What your how old ?! wow thats old that ! your practically 100 , youve went past your prime age now :\

Those seem a bit rude to me, something like trying too hard. There are other phrases that you can use which will seem less rude but more powerful. Example:

Her: You're too young.
You: You're right. You're too old for me. *turns away*

Just perfect. Or this one:

Her: You're too young.
You: You're right. I don't date girls older than myself. Thanks for reminding me of that. (Try to come over as totally sincere here since you just turned it into her problem. )

Or you can use a classic neg:

Her: You're too young.
You: What? You're weird. *turns away* (as if you don't know what she's talking about, works best if you haven't displayed any interest yet)

Generally, try to not let it affect you. If you're younger, just be cool with it. Usually you'll soon start getting compliments how mature you are for your age. I've had that happen to me. xD

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How are you progressing, man?

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Great thread really inspirational !

Ok, I don't want to jack your thread or anything, but I've had a bad past 2 days now, missed a few classes and didn't approach a blonde 10 and her brunette 8 friend on the bus home last night.

I eventually mustered up the courage to ask her what time it was and got to talk to her a bit when her friend fell asleep. Got her facebook, but I still consider it a failed attempt.

I've been reading this entire thread for the past half hour and want to thank you Scouser. Reading about you get over your shitty days, get up and get trying again has lifted my spirits somewhat.

P.S. this is the first I've heard of your VERY direct opener and hope you don't mind, I'm going to try it later on today.


Thanks
Fierus

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Thanks guys, so much - I hope I am helping loads of PUA's out there..

Haven't been doing much day game lately becuase of the shitty weather in Liverpool at the moment and it going dark early but I have dramaticaly improved my night game.

Had a party in town last night. Approached everyone, literally! Was the fun-loving sociable guy who goes direct, has fun, takes what he wants.. I three-wayed kissed two hot girls (just a long kiss on the lips).. K closed 3 girls and kissed one HB9 on the lips (a girl that I know from school but have never EVER had the confidence to go and even say hi and now I have .. There were also about 6 or 7 other hot girls I didn't take my chances with for the simple fact that I got a little bit drunk.. They were giving me multiple IOI's, talking sexually escalating but I couldn't be bothered staying in set longer then 2 minutes!

At one point in the club. These two hench bounces were just staring at me when this girl was grinding me and sucking my finger..

What I have noticed is that it isn't about the information you learn. It is about practice. Practice makes perfect! I can't describe in words how happy I am that by myself improving I am inspiring others!

In school SPAM, I am the fucking man. All the girls love me. I growing my social circle, having the time of my life. Guys want advice off me.. but it can be so much better, you just have to make it that way.

LESSONS:

- Practice makes perfect and changes your state. Just think, when you start revising for an exam, your rusty, but you get into state of wanting to work and so you begin to see changes, you begin to get good.. Same goes for pick up, you practice, and by doing so your state will change and all you will want to do is have fun, you won't care about the outcome.

When someone tells you to 'not care about the outcome'.. It doesn't mean you learn those words! They are just words, nothing else. Instead PRACTICE! Your state will change and you will have a fucking ball!!