So I've recently started looking at online dated sites. I'm actually a pretty confident guy when it comes to talking to girls, or at least used to be - lost it a bit recently though. I guess it's more accurate to say I'm very confident at talking to random girls but maybe not so much when hitting on them. ANYWAY - the online dating scenario;

I messaged this HB (8-9) earlier this evening - I went with trying to make her demonstrate value- she said in her profile that she was sexy, and that people usually noticed her nice boobs and nice eyes (which of course I did!) but I messaged her the following - going with some MM and something I read by Style ;

Subject: Sexy? If you say so.....

Hi [username] - if that is your real name (hippy parents by any chance? )

So according to the mystery that is [chat site]; you're someone I "might like". Now you descibe yourself as sexy and that people notice your boobs and eyes, and there's no denying you are gorgeous. But beauty is fairly common. What I'd like to know is can you tell me three things about yourself which would encourage me to get to know you better, none of which can be about your looks.

I look forward to your response
Russ

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First time I used this method and less than 20minutes I got a response;

well i like to think i am intelligent and funny and i have my own buissnesses?
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Now a response is good but that was stupidly brief- shes only 24 so owning her own businesses is pretty impressive I went with;

Well it has to be said you get points for having your own businesses and its pretty clear you're intelligent. Haven't seen evidence of you being funny yet but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt.

You're definately loosing points for being so brief though, but getting there :p

What do these businesses involve if you don't mind me asking?

THEN she replied;

clothes shop beauty salon and wedding dress shop

How more brief could she be - on these things I normally take any kind of response as almost an IOI but this is ridiculous, shes been replying almost instantly too - but imo this isn't an ioi as shes being so brief - maybe shes just being polite - I don't know wh though; I'm being quite rude

Any tips on what to say next - I'm not replying until tomorrow or maybe even a few days but any tips/advice would be good

cheers
RTH

'Alright then. Good for you! ' and don't send anything back until she responds, if she does.

Deciding on the (very) brief answers I actually think she isn't really interested, maybe she doesn't like your looks of whatever.

If she is testing you by being brief you will get an answer, if not, let it rest. I think you did great. If she doesn't bite, NEXT.

Just my two cents.

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1. "If you don't mind me asking" is FUCKING WEAK. Why would she MIND you ASKING?

2. Your first question getting her to qualify is fine, but the next question is an interview question with an obvious, simple answer. Give her more to work with. Tell her about yourself, some stuff that's going on in your life (i.e. a DHV story or two), ask her if anything like that's ever happened to her, or if she has friends like that, or if she's ever felt that way, or whatever relates to the story you told. You can also ask more open-ended questions about her goals, ideals, etc.

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Seem's to me she isn't as intelligent or as funny as she says she is.
You did a good job as far as I can see apart from yeah "do you mind" but, with answers that short and no wit or seemingly enjoyable conversation, is it really worth pursuing her? Then again maybe she isn't boring, maybe she isn't into your looks or something?

Yeah I pretty much agree with all which is being said. I cringed as I sent "if you don't mind" that is weak. I disagree with just leaving it at "good for you" etc, because I wouldn't say I've intrigued her enough just yet - maybe my questions have been too closed. Infact I'd probably say all what you are saying if somebody else had written that - it's good to get another perspective. AND yes maybe she just isn't into my looks, that is a possibility.

I'll reply with some sort of story I? guess and see where it goes - will keep you guys updated if you're interested.

RTH

Just a thought Russell... my 2 cents....

I like to do either one of two things (or both simultaneously if I can), and that is either 1) to pump myself up and tell her how awesome I am (in a fun and JOKING way of course) or 2) giving her big fat negs (also joking way).

From what I can tell about the exchange so far, I get the impression that you are focussed far too much on her and her responses. Forget that. It is subtle, but it is showing too much interest.

The beauty salon girls I met (gosh there have been a few), took absolute glee in replying to my 'what kind of eye shadow suits me?' line. It communicates so much.. because they know you are teasing them, but they are interested in it anyway. It also shows that you are crazy, fun, and not like 99% of the boring guys out there.