Last weekend I was out at my favorite watering hole doing my thing. Opened a 2-set trying to get the hotter of the 2 but could tell she wasn't in to me but the lesser one was. Screw it, the other one was still good enough, so I take her to the dance floor. After a bit she asks "do you want my #" LOL #closing without even asking So a few days later I decided to text her after a different girl flaked on me. She then adds me on facebook, so of course I go and check out some of her pictures to see how thick my beer goggles were that night

Some of the pictures looked familiar, but I couldn't place it. Then today out of boredom + ending it with flaky girl I decided to log in to my account on a dating site I hadn't used in months. Down in my inbox was a message with this same girls picture! Months ago I had sent her a short message, she replied, then I replied with some more to which she never replied.

So you see, same girl, same pua, but vastly different results online versus real life. Oh and she's only a 6 too, beer goggles were indeed in effect!

My point is, why waste time on a dating site getting blown off by frumpy girls when those same girls will throw themselves at you with just a bit of game at the bar. Sure if you're bored and have actual game too sending a few messages a week is no harm, but I don't think anyone should take online dating seriously.

I also think dating sites need to get with the times, their model for meeting others is very outdated. Someone should come out with a site that is more analogous to meeting people in real life. I have some ideas, maybe I should make one!

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The way i see this, in real life you were able to engage her, whereas online she lost interest, let’s be honest here in a bar, although she will undoubtedly having guys trying their luck the volume of guys doing so will be less than a dating site, (after asking a female friends permission to use some of her photos) i created a online dating profile pretending to be her, within about 10 minutes of creating the profile, messages where coming in and by the second day there was already 5 pages of messages, after going through all the messages one by one and showing her some of the messages, we both agreed out of 5 pages there was only 1 message which would have captivated her enough for her to reply to, and even then it wasn’t the best, and same with these guys profiles, only 1 or 2 bits had anything good about them.

The fact she replied to you originally shows you where able to captivate her originally, whether the fact she didn’t reply subsequently is because she didn’t logon again or your profile put her off, or even because your message didn’t capitulate her enough is a matter for speculation, and without knowing what you sent her, what your profile looks like etc, i couldent even hazard a guess at if it is one of these or some other reason, the only person who truely knows for sure is her.
I disagree but as i am launching a Guide to help guys with online game it is hardly surprising that i disagree and i guess i am possibly slightly biased because of this.
Online Game is not a waste of time IF you are able to captivate girls, know what other men are doing right and wrong, and can engage these girls for a few messages to sort out the meet.

Online Game does not have to just be dating sites, there is some amazingly hot girls on facebook

I do however agree that you shouldn’t sit behind a computer 24/7 and do online game, otherwise when you actually meet the girls you won’t know how to socialise with them etc, online game should primarily be used to supplement forms of face to face game.

Jtaz