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PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 9:06 pm 
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This is in 2 parts.
1) Im meeting a good amount of women in the daytime but its brief, as its daytime. I go for FB over texting because i have a very cool lifestlye and its easier for me personally to display value on facebook.
Im having trouble getting much back form FB though. What are some good opening lines to the girl once you have added her, she has accepted you? And is it best to go straight into chat, or instant message them? Im thinking IM ,
"Hey do you always give your details out to strangers at starbucks then?"
Thats pretty much all i have. or the marriage scenario one, which worked at first but i think everyone knows it now , and it can convey low value

2) Has anyone read windowshopping for women? Im online gaming a bit more now due to schedule. There must be a system for adding random hot women to your Facebook, and then seducing them.

Have a lot of experience in game but have never delved into online, so would love some advice on this.


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This is in 2 parts.
1) Im meeting a good amount of women in the daytime but its brief, as its daytime. I go for FB over texting because i have a very cool lifestlye and its easier for me personally to display value on facebook.
Im having trouble getting much back form FB though. What are some good opening lines to the girl once you have added her, she has accepted you? And is it best to go straight into chat, or instant message them? Im thinking IM ,
"Hey do you always give your details out to strangers at starbucks then?"
Thats pretty much all i have. or the marriage scenario one, which worked at first but i think everyone knows it now , and it can convey low value

2) Has anyone read windowshopping for women? Im online gaming a bit more now due to schedule. There must be a system for adding random hot women to your Facebook, and then seducing them.

Have a lot of experience in game but have never delved into online, so would love some advice on this.
I'm no expert in how to go about handling random hot women on FB, but for women you do add, keep it funny or basic, not too cocky, it's not needed.

If they're on chat within a day or 2, speak with them if not, drop them a simple line, simplicity can win and often does.

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 25, 2010 1:27 am 
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Online sarging is perfect for someone like you that has outside experience as well.

DHV is great..but honestly...I've never found that it matters that much in the beginning. You can be a broke, no friends, useless person...and funny...and still get a girl.

Text game is KEY. Forget Facebook unless you're starting or stepping to text from there. Texting brings you into a girls life anytime you want...and you get to send short smart funny texts whenever. If you've got game, sounds like you do, you know what to send.

Facebook is a little more awkward than free online dating sites (POF.com OKcupid.com) because girls haven't put themselves out there...but it's still a good place to meet women.


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My friends and I used to do this successfully on myspace all the time. Just browsing for hot women and adding them. Then a couple months later just hit them up and start a convo. It was surprising how many were willing to actually give their numbers and eventually meet up. However I haven't been quite as successful at this with facebook. I think maybe a lot of girls started getting on facebook because they got tired of the lames sending them messages on myspace. Most of my attractive female friends complain about getting friend requests and messages from hundreds of guys on FB and they find it really annoying. That has kind of repelled me from gaming on Facebook. I think its just way too saturated with losers trying to hook up with girls becasue they are too afraid to do it in person. On the other hand I find FB great for following up with women you've met out in public. Just my 2cents.

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Yea, that makes sense.
So for the girls i meet in the daytime i just its best to keep it short and playful. Build up some comfort and investment before baiting them into a full blown intense discussion.

Its right that you need to get the off FB asap. The problem you get in the UK is that girls are so afraid to date outside of their social circle. It's pretty rare that id manage to get one straight out after a daytime meet, but if can build up a bit of convo, can usually meet them out with their friends.

Was just looking at POF in NYC. There are some hot women on there. Shame internet dating isnt more socially accepted in the UK


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Yea, that makes sense.
So for the girls i meet in the daytime i just its best to keep it short and playful. Build up some comfort and investment before baiting them into a full blown intense discussion.

Its right that you need to get the off FB asap. The problem you get in the UK is that girls are so afraid to date outside of their social circle. It's pretty rare that id manage to get one straight out after a daytime meet, but if can build up a bit of convo, can usually meet them out with their friends.

Was just looking at POF in NYC. There are some hot women on there. Shame internet dating isnt more socially accepted in the UK
I agree about the UK in regards to what your saying, it's different, but not impossible, concentrate on building comfort, then build conversation up, try and be a little bit different (not stupidly) and progress that way, it may take a little longer, but it'll all come good the more you experiment.

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Yea, i agree. I usually hit them with a funny comment through message, then take it over to the IM. I find if you go to IM too soon, you have to build up some rapid comfort and its pretty tricky.


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Yea, i agree. I usually hit them with a funny comment through message, then take it over to the IM. I find if you go to IM too soon, you have to build up some rapid comfort and its pretty tricky.
Yep, that's probably my downfall, I never know what kind of funny thing to say on FB etc, what kind of approach do you take? Maybe I worry how they'd take it, incase they think who the fook is he?

Again, the IM route can be tricky, kind of land yourself in it, if they're reluctant to speak you have just dug yourself a hole.

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Yea, im going through the hit n miss period now. Which is tough because im putting all the effort of getting really hot girls contacts in the daytime, just to get to a 1 in 5 chance of them replying.
There was the "I saw your pics and have married n divorced you" line which has worked for me tbf, but it sounds so lame.

I realised that girls that add me, all the would do is say "hey" and then wait for me to do the talking. Whether ud get away wiith that i dont know.

I would say so far only 1 in 3 girls reply to my facebook messages. So i guess u can imagine how many messages they get.

Have you read the windowshoppingforwomen book? Im thinking of getting it


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Yea, im going through the hit n miss period now. Which is tough because im putting all the effort of getting really hot girls contacts in the daytime, just to get to a 1 in 5 chance of them replying.
There was the "I saw your pics and have married n divorced you" line which has worked for me tbf, but it sounds so lame.

I realised that girls that add me, all the would do is say "hey" and then wait for me to do the talking. Whether ud get away wiith that i dont know.

I would say so far only 1 in 3 girls reply to my facebook messages. So i guess u can imagine how many messages they get.

Have you read the windowshoppingforwomen book? Im thinking of getting it
Nope, got a link? Also interested in all material.

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For his manifesto on texting

http://SameNightSeduction.com/b4utxther


For his complete system on Online Dating.

http://SameNightSeduction.com/push-button-dating

Not sure about getting it as it seems to be for dating sites, so useless in the UK


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Cheers mate,going to have a proper look, see what's going on with them!

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