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be straight forward and dont neg them, they are probably insecure about their age so you doing that wont help you at all, thats all i know
I agree with you for the most part. But I'd like to add that there's a sharp divide amongst cougars. There is one group, albeit large, that this rule would apply to. They are insecure, they are scoping younger guys particularly for this reason, and negs would be far less effect than say... C&F. For the sake of convenience, we'll call these White Cougars.
However, there is also another group this are extremely confident despite their age, and go for younger guys simply because they know they can. We all know Heidi Fleiss. And this group of women require negs.... or else they'll walk all over your ass. We will call these Black Cougars.
The good thing is that Black Cougars, while they are much harder to game than White Cougars, are easy to spot. Just as the AMOG is extremely easy to identify in a group setting, Black Cougars also emit a certain Alpha radiance. There is nothing subtle about them... as you will often see them when men half their age. The interesting thing is that they are not being gamed.... they are doing the gaming. If you're looking for a challenge, approach a Black Cougar, because they are well worth the risk. The disadvantage.... ballsy is the only thing that will work with this demographic, but if it doesn't, they will gladly snatch them away from you in a moment's notice.
If you are a guy who just happens to appreciate an older woman, the White Cougar is also an extremely enjoyable experience. As was stated earlier, negs are not the best approach. C&F is a better approach. The most striking feature of the White Cougar is simply their lack of Alpha demeanor. They will undoubtedly be more secure than your average HB, but their few weak spots will make them vulnerable and ultimately vicious if not handled properly.
There's a lot to be gained from Cougars of either class. Don't worry about buyer's remorse... this immature defense mechanism of most single women is not part of their programming. They have infinitely more experience than your average target, but with this wealth is an acute perception and a brutally low bullshit tolerance. Of course not all older women will present this sort of difficulty. But any woman worth your time and effort will. You will notice that there is a vast difference between older women and Cougars.... If you want to be shown the time of your life, I suggest you stick with the latter. If you think you've mastered your game, and you feel the need for greater challenges, go for the Cougars. But as the name implies, they can, and at first chance will, bite.
Happy sarging....