I know, I just have to stay consistent and not let my thoughts get the better of me. Hopefully, when I get good - I will post some videos..

Excited for day game in town tomorrow.. Am going into town to shop and have fun and if there are cute girls there, its alpha to tell them they look cute

I am going to grab a bite to eat. Have a bath. Put some fresh clothes on.

...and go out to town!

I am excited for today

Side note: There are times in school when I can't approach girls I don't know because I am thinking too much.. But when I relax and use the 3 second rule, it all becomes easy.

Lesson:

- Use 3 second rule as soon as I see the girl (keeps me in the moment, carpe diem)
- Stay relaxed but at a good energy

Didn't end up going to town because I took too long to get ready and it gets dark really early now.

So I went up to the park and around busy roads with my dog and I - talked to woman older woman for a bit (3 second rule) but couldn't find any girls to game. Really annoyed because I want to keep the consistency up! Tomorrow, I will go to town and try twice as hard!

I feel more confident. I am more relaxed. I am getting more and more comfortable gaming by myself. I am improving my game dramatically.

I can't believe how much I took for granted the summer. Half terms. Going on holiday with my mates... I just expected things to happen and didn't know why nothing was working, I wasn't going out and approaching..

Feel awesome right now. Can't wait for school tomorrow - just be sociable, talk and flirt. Then some day game in town

note: there was a moment when I was out that I just took in my surroundings and was completely in the moment. I am starting understand what Carpe Diem really means.

Guys, please keep responding it motivates me to do well.

Can someone explain to me what the 3 second rule is, some say that you count 3 seconds before approaching.. Others (i.e Mystery says you don't count 3 seconds, as soon as you see the girl you start walking towards her and it takes approximately 3 seconds before you can think of an opener and come up with excuses.) I am thinking about this too much and it is preventing me from approaching..

I am going to have a bath. Put some fresh clothes on. Do some day game on a busy road. Tomorrow, Saturday and Sunday I will be going to do some day game if anyone wants to come.

Please keep posting!

When you get anxious, your brain stimulates your body to release chemicals into your bloodstream. It takes about 3 seconds until those chemicals start working initially, it takes 3 seconds until you start to feel anxiety. If you react within those 3 seconds, your mind becomes distracted and the chemicals are being inhibited, sometimes even completely stopped. The main problem is that most people as soon as they start feeling anxiety, they chicken out. That's what the 3 second rule is for. As soon as you spot a target, move in. Don't think, do it. If you wait longer than 3 seconds, the chemicals causing anxiety have enough time to start messing with you and once they started messing with you, your mind will start running possible negative scenario outcomes in order to prevent you from approaching. Since you want to approach, your unconscious brain starts to stimulate more chemicals in order to prevent you from doing it until you eventually either chicken out or approach awkwardly which will be obvious. Additionally to that not making a move immediately lowers your perceived value as you hesitated. Not following the 3 second rule can have serious consequences to your current game. It doesn't always happen, but it's very possible.

Short version: Approach within 3 seconds before anxiety takes over and messes up your approach. Have a default opener for situations like this.

BTW, you can think of an opener during the approach. David DeAngelo has a good method for that. He's always like "hey" at first (in an authoritative and confident way). So, when you spot the target, approach. During walking think of an opener. Say "Hey" to get the attention while you keep thinking of an opener if you don't have one in your mind yet. If you still don't have an opener ready by the time you have their attention, smile. That gives you another 1-3 seconds. If you are still stuck, say "I have a question for you." That locks you into an opinion opener, but at least you have some more time to decide which you will take. If you play this well, you can buy 10 or even more seconds of time and due to the pauses in your talking, you can do a strong DHV that displays your confidence and lack of neediness right at the approach. You're not properly done with A1 yet and you're already running A2.

Though, If you play long enough, you won't need all these time delays to think of an opener. My suggestion is that you simply remember a default opener and have it ready in situations like this. e.g. You can use the "Who lies more" opener with an elaborate story behind it (e.g. your friend broke up with his girlfriend because she kept lying or you read an article about a study that showed how women are lying more and then you go about the stereotypical man who is supposed to lie more and how you think that it's possible because women have more freedom today than 50 years ago).

Keep it up, you can do it!

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Thanks guys!

Haven't done day game for the past two days, because I took too long to get myself ready and it gets pitch black dark too early now.. So, I am going to do some night game tonight in town!

Just had a bath. About to get ready.

So excited

So, I went to town yesterday.. Here is my field report!!

A friend of mine was hosting a party at a club in town. I didn't know half the people there.. I approached everyone, was the life of the party, went direct, sexually escalated but most of all just had fun..

I wasn't thinking. I was doing.

I approached girls going direct.. 'Your cute..', 'you look fucking hot', hey, whats up?'.. Told stories, good body language, dominant, powerful, not giving a fuck, being in the moment, having fun, spoke with emotion, honest, took what I wanted.

I saw a two-set (HB8 and HB7) that I had to have!.. I approached within 3 seconds, it went something like this:

ME: Hey girls whats up, am Zack.
HB: Hey I'm (forgotten name)
ME: I'll be honest I came over to tell you, your fucking cute..
HB: OMG
ME: (Grab her and pick her up)

At this point everyone in the club was watching..

I isolate girls to a table. HB7 friend is dealt with, I isolate the girl.. I say:

ME: If you are a good dancer, I'll give you a kiss..

She gets up and starts dancing..

I take her to a VIP room and start making out with her, telling her she has a fucking amazing body.. Get her number, tell stories, give nicknames

I then go and dance with other girls, HB8 sees me doing this.. I am kissing hot girls on the lips, dancing with them, getting pictures with me, picking them up - doing what I want to do..

I start making out with another girl (HB8) around a large couch, full of mates and non-mates watching.. A girl that used to go to my school, I used to fucking love, be the nice guy too was there.. She said I changed and I look different, flirting with her, having fun.. then her cockblock of a friend stops me from escalating.. OK fine, I go and dance with my HB8 (first girl) kiss her, she tells me I am crazy and she saw me getting with girls - shes talking to her mates about me etc.

I do a shitload more approaches on 5 sets, 6 sets etc. full attention on me..

Lessons:

- Stop over-thinking everything, what's the point?
- Have fun and don't give yourself rules preventing you from doing what you want to do.. Don't over think!

Haha, you're a true inspiration, man.

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Just got up for work. Put some fresh clothes on. Let's have some fun!

Am excited..

A couple of weeks ago, I got an HB8's number from work.. Saw her in work yesterday but was in a rush and didn't have the time to go over to her.. She text me later saying 'hey you.. am sorry I didn't come and say hi to you, it was nice seeng you .. i was hungover blblablbla'

Notes:

- Always have mints on you
- Always have lip balm on you



I learnt this because I was in such a rush and wasn't prepared for work etc.

Later that day, yesterday night.. A friend of mine was hosting a party, I befriended all the people I didn't know.. Life of the party, teased girls, playful, went direct, had fun, was the alpha male .. This time I was prepared ..

Took an HB6 (was horny :/) into the toilet she went to start snogging me and I moved away, I started kissing her neck.. Grabbing her ass, I pull up her dress and I can see her bair ass, start biting her ass and doing some other naughty stuff on the front bit.. she goes to grab the outside of my jeans (the private part).. The toilet wasn't locked and girls cock block me..

I go out, socialise, go direct, girls take pictures with me, telling stories, speaking with emotion, alpha body language, having fun .. I start making out with an HB8.. sucking on the outside of her bra in front of everyone, she starts sucking my finger, her tongue swivelling around my finger.. OMG

Awesome night

Going to have a bath. Put some fresh clothes on. Head out for day game.

Excited ..

Sounds like you had a lot of fun at that party. But you should always remember that you shouldn't start with foreplay and sex in front of everybody. Not only can it trigger ASD, make the girl feel uncomfortable and/or make you look like a jerk in front of everyone for showing off, it can also lower your social value extremely as girls that see you will know that you aren't discrete about sex and since they don't want to be seen as sluts, they WILL avoid you.

Remember, being a PUA is giving value to the world, not taking it. Always leave the girl in a better shape than you found her, otherwise you're just another horny loser incapable of an actual relationship. It's not just about getting girls, it's also about keeping them.
If you trigger ASD or cause buyer's remorse, you haven't left her better than before. Play solid game as opposed to fool's mate. I read something recently that had a good analogy. It said that the best chess players never go for a fool's mate, they always play solid game. Learn from that.

Other than that, keep playing, you're going well. Practice makes a master.

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Thank you.. Your being so helpful.

I just had a bath. I have put some fresh clothes on. Ready to do some day game.

I am excited... DIRECT WORKS

Day game yesterday was arite, never saw any girls.. I went out too late once again (learnt from this mistake) - I approached anyone I saw and talked for a little bit.

I am having a bath now. Putting some fresh clothes on. Heading in to town for some day game!

In addition to this I am improving my lifestyle more and more and being the connector in my social group.. planning events etc.

Love it.. Am excited

Just had a bath. Put some fresh clothes on. Heading out for day game.