Two weeks ago this woman came up to me in a disco and started dancing really sexually. She slammed her but into my crotch and gave me hard on. We hadn’t even spoke a word. I was sober and kind of tired and I was bothered that we became a public display of porn with our clotehes on. So I walked away.
Later we talked in a quit area and I # closed.
Last Friday I took her out dancing again. I thought if this woman can give me a hard on on the dance floor, then she probably wants sex. Well let me tell ya: if it wasn’t for knowing pick up tactics, I would have been nowhere!
She wanted me to pick her up at a supermarket near her place. She wouldn’t text me her address for me to navigate there, cause she didn't trust that. When she said this on the phone, I thought I was in for a tough date with no escalation or whatsoever.
She met me at the supermarket and then told me to drive her home (WTF?). She let me into her apartment and we had a drink there. I was confused and started thinking we weren’t going dancing at all and she was just gonna have sex with me right on the spot. All of the sudden though, after some small talk she put on her shoes.
In the car she asked me about past relations and asked me if she wasn’t to old for me (She's 32 I'm twenty eight). It was all shit tests off course. And I told her friendly and funnily not be such a fuss about accusing me to be a player and stuff. All went well and we really came in the right mood for dancing together.
After an hours driving I parked the car and we walked for 10 minutes. There was very sexy looking latino girl in a black dress outside a bar. My date commented the girl she looked beautiful and the girl said we were a beautiful couple (me being a blonde tall viking looking guy and she being 100% pure African). This resulted in heavier Kino, we walked hand in hand, like boyfriend girlfriend, to the bar. Feeling pretty.
We got into the bar. And first we got a drink and took things slow. I intensified Kino and see if she was into kissing. But she resisted. I reacted coldly and got a drink. I push-pulled it very solidly all night, this worked! We moved things to the dancefloor. And she went all out on me again:
Now picture this. A tall white guy, dancing with a slightly shorter black woman, with big breasts and nice ass. There is nothing weird about that. But she kept slamming her ass in my crotch, forcing the dancing to look like some kind of porn show. At a certain point she grabbed hold of a chair and made it look like I was taking her from behind. Guys were putting their thumbs up to me and I could hear groups of girls cheering behind me. As soon as I walked away to get a drink, other guys would come up to her to dance, thinking she's the only sex wanting girl in the house. I actually needed some breathers every once in a while, we were working up a sweat. But I kept my cool and kept gaming. Slowly she started kissing back, I could tell the dancing made her horny. Yet she was showing heavy ASD. She is also a mother and she thought I was just having her for fun. I told her it always starts with fun, whether she likes it or not.
We had a great night, good convo and slowly the kissing intensified. Also the chick who commented on us to be such a nice looking couple also showed up with her boyfriend and gave the crowd another show. All good vibrations. We bounced at 3 Pm to go for a bite. Then we got to my car. I offered to drive her home.
Now this was weird: She was Kinoing all night, and dancing sexually, but I was fooled by her ASD and reluctance to kiss (also when walking toward the car and we were alone she didn't want to kiss me). In the car I offered to take her home, like a gentleman, but she also said we could go to my appartment for an hour or two and then I could drive her home. Logistically this would cost me much more time so I refused, but she kept bringing it up so I figured it was some sort of first sexual IOI and told her OK, let’s go.
We drove to my place, and had a drink on the couch. I asked her why she was so distant all of the sudden and she told me that it was unusual for her to show so much intimacy without really loving a man. It tried to make a couple more moves, but it was futile. She said she was tired and wanted to sleep. Also she said I shouldn’t pay attention to her and just have shower or something ( I thought WTF? You think I smell bad or something LOL). So I did. I freshened up and calmed down. I found her lying on the couch asleep and when I put a blanket on her she startled and I hushed her and calmed her down and told her to go asleep again. I then did what Mystery told me; freeze out. I just sat behind my computer and stopped paying attention. After 10 minutes she woke up and I could hear her from the other room asking what I was doing. I told her I was writing something. I said this in a calm and uninterested matter. She put the glasses we drank from on my kitchen counter, and then did something unexpected.
She moved to my bed. And she lay in it, with her clothes on. I could hear her shiver, as the sheets were still cold. I went to her, just wearing my boxers and my robe. I rolled up beside her and rubbed her thighs and arms to warm her up. And as soon as she was warmed up things exploded. In a half serious attempt to return the rubbing favor she went from my thighs to my crouch and grabbed my cock. I started kissing her neck and she took one of her breasts out of her bra and told me to suck it. Before we knew it we were super horny and she mounted me. I was kind of confused and taken by surprise cause I thought it wasn’t going to happen that night. When she was on top I came way to fast, obviously cause she already gave me a hard on all night. I returned the favor by sucking more breasts and eating her out. After an hour or so, I got hard again and we went for a second round. Yet I could notice I was a bit nervous (I’m not that experienced yet haha) and frustrated and came to fast again. Alas she was kind of disappointed, but the fact that I closed it was giving me lots of confidence in retrospect.
She showered up and I got into some comfortable clothes. And I drove her home. It was 6:30. She was sleeping in my car, holding my hand all the way. I could notice when we said goodbye that she was just as confused as I was. But we had really made a connection that night, and that’s what counts. Sex or no sex. Though reminiscing on the drive back home I gathered a had played out a solid gaming strategy as taught by our guru’s. And this produced the right result. I’m finally getting the hang of it
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