Hey there guys Im new here but I wanted to know if getting an email close is okay? I was at a bar/lounge last week and I saw a set being wall flowers so I went up to them and told one of them that I was gonna dance with her so that she doesn't seem so bored. So we are dancing or whatever and I ask her what she has going for her other than her looks and she laughs and says blah blah blah. So while we are dancing I neg her a little and then I tell her to come with me to meet some new people(my friends). She grabs my arm and I tell her not to get any ideas because I just met her. After meeting my friends I tell her I have to get back to them and that I want her to write something creative on a piece of paper. She writes "had a great time thanks!". I roll my eyes and say it again, she puts a smiley face. So I say, So your gonna make me tell you? Write your number down. She says she doesn't give her number out but she will give me her email so I accept. Is email close a nono? Or should have I continued for the number?

P.s. This was the first time I've tried picking anyone up with PUA material. How did I do overall and what can you recommend I improve on.
I also got into a good convo with the bartender before this, but she started getting busy getting people drinks so I ended up going downstairs with my friends.When I left she gave me a smile and said bye, I missed my opportunity didnt I?. What tips can you give for that situation?

Not a 100% sure here, but you should probably scratch this one, im not a believer in the "i dont give out my number" line, next time tell her you don't do emails and neg her for being creepy, or cerial killer weirdo, if she doesn't budge just move on.

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You got something out of it and you can get a day 2 out of an email I suppose but I agree with f0nx on this one. Online sarging isn't my style and a girl saying she doesn't give out her # is feeding you b.s. You use false time constraints (like seeing your friends) to make it appear you have something to do and if the set goes cold you can ditch. I'm curious why you brought her to your friends. The point is to approach a set, maybe with a wing, and pull them from the group not bring them to the group.. It seems you did good on the attraction phase since she danced with you and went to meet a group of people she didn't know. Had you built more comfort I think she would have given it to you.

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alright thanks for the reply guys.