Sorry for the whole story:
Oke so i couple of weeks ago i met this girl in the internet, she lived nearby and my friend knew her so it was alright.
After talkin for a couple of weeks we decided to see eachother
I met her and we talked alot, but i was to chiken to do anything.
After that we still talked and i invited her over to my house to watch a movie.
So she came 2 days after, we made diner together and we ate it.
She gave me some ioi's about ''our'' song and how it could be a romantic movie, while watching i put my head on her lap hehe
everytime i tried to flirt she was kinda holding back.
After the movie we went to the bus, while waiting we talked, and i gave a little ioi by looking at her and acting like i lost attention for her story hehe
in the bus i did some palmreading but she was kinda cold about it.
Later at the trainstation, i took her phone and made her taking to from my hand so i took her hand while she took her phone, but instead of holding hands, she let go.
She had trouble giving me her hand, but while waiting we hold hands for a little and i put her thumb to my lips so it would warm her hands up a little but she was cold about it.
When i wanted to k-close, the train was there and my chance missed.
The same night, she told me it was beter if we stayed friends because she liked another boy (i was stealing her from him until now).
All of a sudden she likes him more, it used to be the other way around

I know i should've kino'd at the first date, and i know ive been a fool hehe
But i really liked this girl so i wouldn't want to ruin it.

Anyway i told her she should do what she wants.. i was trying to show willingness to walk away, ive only seen her twice.

My idea was to tell her not to go to fast, we just saw eachother twice and there is no rush..
Is this a good idea, and what is the best thing to do in this situation.

Thanks you would help me allot