Hey,

So I have been into this whole community now for about 3 and a half months.

Overall, my life has improved vastly with the techniques I have learnt and practiced.

I’ve done quite a few approaches now, however recently I am finding myself getting blown-out.

I was in a bar tonight, approached a 3-set..ran an opener, the obstacles seem completely un-interested and put the target at un-ease. Cut a long story short, the obstacle says “we’ve answered your question now u shud leave”

Never been blown out of a set like that before.. do you guys think i need to go back to the theory re-learn and read up on techniques, or just practice that bit more? Is it normal to have mixed-results after 3 ½ months of practicing or should I be hooking the majority of the sets by now?

I am really eager to succeed and improve this area of my life

You might get the odd few where the girls are "ACTUAL" bitches or in a down right bad mood. Just tell her "You seem like you're having a bad time. Should have stayed home rather than bringing your bad SPAM around with your friends" Something like that. And just say Pleasure meeting you and eject. Her friends might then see you as a real man for stepping up because maybe it is true that she was being a bich and having a bad day. And most guys would probably just leave quitely or call her a b1tch which you should never do or say.

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So almost a bitch-shield, which needed addressing with some methods..

Do you still find some sets don't open ?

I'm going to continue reading & practicing but I think i might need get some 1-1 training even if its just for a couple of hours, do you think that would help getting my game tighter?

To the OP.

Man, I have been in the game for more than 3 years. I dont say this to brag but I have been in several hundred sets... I still lose some and win some. It will always be like that.

Granted, nowadays I lose more of them because they bore me and I cant be bothered but yeah, many many girls just arent up for it.

This is something that you need to learn. To fail and not take offense. To accept that sometimes it is not worth closing just to close.

What I would do in your situation. I can tell you what I did when I was in your situation. I was a new PUA, the world was new and the sets were hot. I was inexperienced and I crashed and burned all the time. I opened like 100% of my sets and lost like 75% because I didnt know any better.

So I told myself this:

The worst thing that can happen is that I quit now and never learn to master this. So everything else is better, including going out and failing with 100 girls.

I also told myself:

There is no failing, only situations to learn from. My goal is to play, if I play I have won. Meaning, if I dont even try, I have lost. The results were not important anymore, only practice.

This helped because I accepted that I wasnt a full fledged player (Im still not) and I told myself that it was ok. It is normal to fail, it is a natural step in the learning process.



So I went out and sarged like crazy.

My initial training grounds were nearly impossible things, I went for the most difficult situations I could find. I went out to the highest level clubs I could find in the only place in the world where there are more hot blondes than hollywood... I did my AMOG training in clubs full of bikers and criminals. Plus a lot of my game has been in a city where I did not even speak the language well.

This makes progress. If you are strong enough to take it. There were times when I felt like a total loser, inferior to everyone, like a failure... But there was one thing that I never ever even considered... Quitting.

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