I dnot know why but when there is a girl i really like, i will try n be super nice to her but other girls who i dont care about i be cocky. Also depending on the girl i will act different, like if the girl is super hot n looks like the type that is DTF (down to f*ck) then i wud be cocky. If its a nice looking cute girl who looks like relationship material then i would be nice.

I want to get a girlfriend and i want her to be treated as special u know? then agian i know that if i suck up to her etc...attraction will be lost (like the kat and the string idea : if u shake the string the cat will be playful but once it stops the cat will loos interest)

I want a girlfriend but i dont think that being cockY will get me a girlfriend that i can have a good relationship with. to mee it seems like pua is all about getting laid and thats it.

What advice can you offer?

Being a PUA is mostly about getting laid ASAP. But that doesn't mean you can't spin it to work for relationships.

Generally a womans power (or leverage) in a relationship is sex. So I say its best to sleep with a woman ASAP in order to neutralize her leverage. After you smash her.. THEN you can relax and decide if you want a relationship with her or not. If she isn't down for it.. at least you fucked her. Its win-win.

Once you've slept with a woman your chances of becoming a boyfriend are much higher than when you haven't. Why waste time, energy and money over weeks or months trying to charm a girl only to be told "lets just be friends".

Sleep with her ASAP.. then things are on YOUR terms. I think thats the best way for you to go IMO.

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Women are smarter than you think... but not as smart as THEY think

There are 3 types of guys

Nice guys
Jerks
Alpha males

The top 2 are bad.

Nice guys are TOO nice
Jerks are TOO much of an asshole
Alpha males are inbetween

Find your balance

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