So here's the thing..
I understand this is probably going to sound like an AFC statement but the fact that I don't have a lot of chicks in my life is a non issue for me HOWEVER I am self conscious and lack self confidence. I want to change that and just that. Does anybody have any useful thoughts on this?

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If you chase perfection, you often catch excellence.

The fact that you don't have a lot of chicks in your life is a non-issue for you, but you're posting on a pick up artist forum.

Step 1 To Developing Confidence: Don't bullshit yourself

Really man, confidence comes from self-efficacy, it's a consequence of repeatedly going after what you want, and getting it. After awhile you start to realize that there's nothing stopping you from attaining whatever it is you want, and you begin to believe in your ability to make your life an enjoyable, satisfying one. This is attractive, primarily because everyone wants to be happy and satisfied, and association with people who are those things tends to produce more of it in one's own life.

The best way to believe you have the power to make your life enjoyable and satisfying, is to go do it. Self consciousness and a lack of confidence are both byproducts of self doubt, erase your self doubt through efficacy, acquire efficacy through determination and perseverance.

Good luck man

well that says it all doesn't it. Thank you.

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If you chase perfection, you often catch excellence.