hey guys im 18 and it feels like im kinda to late for PUA i no im not it jus feels like i am. i want to start going to clubs but none of my freinds are that enthusiastic in goin and have noticed that in my day to day i hardly see any opportunities. does this mean i will have to set time aside to literall go out in daygame? previously i have missd alot of opportunities because of AA but im working on it. Its the doubt that makes gives me AA the sheer doubt that ill be succesful. How do i decide to become a tru PUA it feels like it will be to hard. for sum reason it all feells unnecassary i dont no man i jus no that i hav to improve sum how please help

Your not to late, I started at 20 years old!

Day game in supermarkets, just be friendly, develop on from there, build your self esteem and confidence then perhaps start implementing routines and tricks.

Another person who should look into their innerself, use the inner game section on the forum, also if it means going to bars by yourself, do it, keep smiling!

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18! thats the youngest (technically) you can be for night gaming, which probably the most popular (from what i know). Go out by yourself, if you have no friends.

even if you cant speak to anyone just yet because of AA, just stay in the club for as long as you can, then some more, walk around so your active and try and just give eye contact to anyone around taht you can, maybe say hi, if you can.

then after a few nights out, try opening a set, start off with 1sets ort 2sets (as in 1 girl or 2 girls), even if its just saying "hi, how are you", and just try and have conversation but AVOID these questions:

can i buy you a drink?
where are you from?
where do you work?

these arent gaming (well i guess they are) but the whole point of this community is to be doing what everyone else isnt.

so yeah this will be enough to last someone who hasnt opened before a few weeks. ill tell you why.

Everyone starts out shaky, then they get good and then they look back and think "oh i couldve opened loads more sets back when i didnt", so they set unreal standards for beginners. seriously, it took me a while just to be sober in a club by myself, you HAVE to get used to that first.

If youre nervous talking to a girl you open just tell her "im a little nervous, i dont do this often." just dont apologise for it.

if they ask who your out with, just say your out to make new friends and if they wonder why youre not drinking just say "i dont drink". Make eye contact with anyone you speak to, make sure theyre the first to look away when speaking and ALWAYS SMILE, not too much but be showing teeth.

so;
1-go out to clubs by yourself sober
2- dont leave until youve either opened or stay an hour or so (so you realise you have to be there and you'll get used to it like a second home)
3- smile and eye contact, good body posture (look this up somewhere)
4-open sets when you can, try to open as soon as your in the place without thinking, if not just say hi to everybody, including guys, try having little chats and then speak to women
5-just be friendly with women for a while, dont be gaming. just ask them some stuff, make a few smile around the place, have no intention of getting with them-do it to unattractive girls first, so you KNOW your not looking for something.

now when you can do this, your a social guy. now you can learn some methods (this is the way i found out is good to open up to gaming, wish someone told me)

its no method, its learning to start using methods

also try thinking of AA as just being excited to be talking about girls, as you are, who wouldnt be excited talking to a hot girl?

go out as many nights as you can, even if its for like an hour in a place without any sets; you need to desensitise yourself to the club scene until its your home as if when you walk in you think "these guys are in MY PLACE"

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No, don't go to a club SOBER and on your OWN.

This is the worst piece of advice flying around PUA, in my opinion.

What are the two main reasons people go out clubbing?

To have a good time WITH friends, and to drink ALCOHOL.

If you go out doing the complete opposite, think how "out of the stereotype" you are and it'll show.

Aswell as the fact you'll be so nervous during your first time clubbing sober and alone, and this will pass off as a negative vibe to everyone there who you make eye contact with.

Go out to your local clubs and become familiar with the environment and just concentrate on enjoying yourself first. This will show your a fun person to the other people in the bars and you'll pass off as this sort of character when you are seen again by regulars in that club.

Research your PU material, then gradually introduce it into your nights out.

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"If it can be dreamed, it can be done"

True PUA's, develop natural game, with no alcohol. I've been to bars alone, and had quite a bit of success, all depends on how you put yourself about, and learn from your experiences. I went alone, becauseI wanted to go out, and nobody else was up for it, I wasn't prepared to let my mission fail without attempting it.

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no one joined here to be like everyone else, its not a pleasant beginning but IMO going out by yourself, you learn to control your own night and have fun by yourself;

therefore when you do hang out with friends you will be more commanding and alpha and willing to open sets.

put your future in your own hands, if your with other people you'll spend ages putting blame or excuses on them. Be prepared to blame yourself and put responsibility on yourself; you'll spend a while looking a bit silly but YOU do break in if you keep trying just keep a good mind set.

Its good to be out with friends but the beginning of this is kinda brutal, true, but its neccessary. be a man and take responsiblity.

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