My game plan-

This plan has been based on matching my strengths to theories I have read about on here I feel confident trying. PLEASE keep in mind I am still an AFC but very intelligent, and this is a plan I feel I can go out and try. My terrible sticking point is the k-close. I am only 5’7, with reddy brown hair but have attractive features and good Indie rock look and get looks from HBs frequently and never do anything about it and it's driving me nuts. DO YOU THINK THIS COMBINATION OF YOUR STRATEGIES IS REALISTIC? I’ll let everyone know how it goes anyway.

Step 1: HB checks me out

Step 2: Jump to Mystery Method’s A3 Phase

Straight-up suggests being able to skip to Male-to-female attraction if they check u out when walking. I like the sound of the bait, hook, reel & release MM technique because I love it when girls obviously feel good about themselves from a conversation with me. It makes me feel good and confident. I would also use hoop theory and reframing if the opportunity revealed itself.

Step 3: Relocate to different location to continue conversation.

Always nervous as hell inside at this point but common sense allows me to do it anyway. If they are unable to or appear legitimately busy then I would number close/suggest next meeting time.

Step 4: C1 Build Rapport-

6 interview questions (my choice of routine for tomorrow)

1. You must plan your own death. How old are you? How does it happen? And what is the funeral like?
2. You can be any animal. What are you? You can marry any animal except your own species. What kind of animal do you marry?
3. You can pick your parents from any point in time; they can be real or fictional. Who are they?
4. We have found a strategy and you can travel to any location and time. To what 3 places would you go? OK. Now, what if once you cross through, you learn you cannot return? In which of the three places would you stay?
5. If you had to have a tattoo, what and where would it be?
6. You can invite five people to dinner, real or fictional, from any place or time. Who do you invite to dinner and why?

I would mainly use this as a guide and just let the conversation flow.

Interpretations of her answers- google the interpretations for these

Step 5: Kino test

Depending on the situation I’m going to try and invite her to hold hands playfully whilst walking or try the new best friend hug.

Step 6: Isolate & K-close (promising myself right now that I will grow a pair and commit to this if the other steps are successful)

I don’t like the sound of the, ‘Do you want to kiss me?’ routine. I think I will just try and hold hands with her walking, slowly stop walking and kiss her.



THOUGHTS PLEASE!

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I should also explain that it is important for me to step this out to keep focus, as i have concentration/distraction troubles.

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Perfectly reasonable structure if it works for you, although don't overthink it and stick too rigidly to it, don't get in your head too much. Your comfort questions are fine apart from I wouldn't use the death one, do you not think that's a bit of a crap conversation topic? I do.

If you're having trouble k-closing then work on kino escalating using push-pull so that it becomes a natural progression rather than a sudden, awkward state break. You're correct in saying that mystery's kiss test is truly shite. Try triangular gazing instead.

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thanks mate..i practiced some of the questions with some friends this morning, and got some weird looks with the death question, not that surprising really haha. What you said about the k-closing sounds pretty familiar, awkward do or die moments lol. I'll try triangular gazing next time for sure, i just keep forgetting to do it. Today went pretty well, I practiced jumping from getting the 'jiggy eye' from girls walking by to showing interest to them. It was funny because even though i had a couple of things i wanted to test out, the best result i got (3 attempts, all stopped at least for short conversation) was this girl who about 5m in front of me gave me the jiggy eye and i didnt think i was gonna get it so i sorta freaked, lifted my sunnies and said..'OMG look at this girl' to her. She loved it!

Tomorrow im just gonna look for a feature like legs or dress when they walk past and sorta do what i did today, do the sunnies lift and say 'those legs/wateverlooksgood are OUTRAGEOUS!' and bring in the relocate step. thanks again for the reply mate (aussie habit

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I have to agree with blondguy. It is all about kino escalating correctly. Once you have isolated her, you should be able to kino her right and get close enough to get the kiss. One thing that I try to do to K-close is to get real close to their face with mine. I even brush my cheeks against hers, while saying sweet things in her ears (I would even say negs to her--classic push-pull). One of the best ways to k-close, as I have noticed, is to say tell her a secret in a very low voice right next to her ears (whatever cute secret you want to invent). Then ask for a reply, bamn! go for the kiss!
If you dont want to risk it so much, then tell her when close to her that you cannot get the thought of kissing her out of your head--blame it on her because she is so sexy. From her reaction to that statement of interest, you can tell if you should go for a kiss.
I even do the "dont look at me like that or i will kiss you." They love this because they would intentionally give you the look again. You could go for it then or warn her that it will be coming when she does not expect it.... BAM!!! beautiful right. Field test it, and tell me your opinion on it... Hope it helps...

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