I only ever get a woman when im living at a mates which puts me under some kind of serious pressure or something which im sure women sense.
Without this I always get the same rejection. Boring.
I read from chief and 60 challenge stuff that not killing tension is key I agree.
I got 10 women in three months and a wife from feeling more tense than i could imagine.
Living in home on own doesnt create same SPAM hence no woman.
Doing 'Hi' thing every day but it isnt going to create the push I need to go all the way.
When I got those women I hardly said anything it was all feelings! I think I managed to blurt out to the woman who became my wife 'do you want to come round for some vodka!' she agreed and doesnt even like the stuff!
Guys who do get women who say stuff that puts me under same kind of pressure ie just'go on' or this place is ideal to get one, I always know Ive got my own home to go to and this kills my drive as I am able to escape when I cant handle pressure.
Any ideas on how to make an inescapable scenario of tension of which I cannot get out of without becoming lodger again! Cant sell house!

What's your situation neighborwise? It sounds like you only game when you feel you're competing with someone, so do you have married couples or players next door to you?

Yes I have a neighbour who is actively getting women (all be it ropey ones!) But he's a bit of a nutter and keeps getting into fights and stuff and I have a young daughter at weekends with me and I dont want the influence to rub off on her! It does help with going down pub with him with pressure stuff Ill admit that though!
I just have this thing though that because I can go home round mine on me own and chill out play flippin xbox which stops me from backing down under this sexual tension thing thats really essential i feel in getting a girl!
Got to feel like I cannot wimp out and escape and then go that extra mile!

Yeah, I can understand not wanting him around with a kid daughter. Maybe just tell yourself he's watching? Create the tension that way, so you still feel like you need to keep up.

Hey wow good point been thinking about its me being competitive and your so right. Weve all got our trigger points and that sounds like mine, cant stand anyone being better than me but there always is someone!
Will fire myself up with that next time im out sarging.
Also though I noticed that nobody I know at moment ever gets with a girl unless they know them first! Creating trust with a girl you've never met before seems a bit of a misnomer but with a mate with you just seems like they can go with it all so wing men operate on more than just one level (ie lots!)

What kind of advice is that?? Honestly. No offense. What happens when this guy moves away?? Come on

The answer is to search for these things inside,. As you have expirenced the outside source that you sseek for motivation will not always be around. The same rules apply to this that apply to AA. You have to force youself into sets. Keep a conversation even if your making a complete fool of yourself. The objective is to fight from the inside what ever it is holding you back. I had a similar problem, I was unable to pick up chicks unless I had a wingman. Someone to impress.. you have to learn to create your drive an impress youself with the skills you develop. Case closed

The answer is always within.


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believe and you will see!

I was thinking what you're saying, but I just felt like answering the question at face value. I know for me, I'm not active at all right now, but if I ever developed feelings or oneitis for some girl who didn't feel the same, that would change like overnight for pretty much the same reason as he stated. Because I'd feel like "I can't NOT do this".

We all just have to develop what works for us in the end with guidance from those who have experience and success to smooth our struggle to gain our own success through practise.