ok im travelling around NZ SPAM,i was walking around at night on thursday and i came across a guy who was handing out free tickets to the strip club..
as i walked in it wasn't busy but there was a HB10 standing by the bar so i appraoched her and opened with "can u blow me out?" an opener i learned from 'RULES of the GAME' she didnt know what i meant so i filled her in on what 'BLOW ME OUT' means, she said shes not a rude person but she could get some other stripper to blow me out if i was really rude to her. As her stripper friend came out I negged her on the spot, she got too bitchy so i left her where i found her.

As I walked away the HB10 came up and approached me and wanted me to fill her in on the convo, 30 secs after talking to her she was giving me alot of IOIs like touching me, rubbing my arm, flicking her hair, asking for my name, we talked for what seemed like 15 mins before she took off into a room with a guy >:( (I was very pissed) after that i put my drink down and left.

if i stayed longer would i have a chance with her or are all those IOIs just the way strippers do to sell themselves?

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Exotic dancers make most of their money with lap dances. I have a huge love/hate relationship with the strip club. On one hand, it's her job to make you feel like you are loved and desired. Also she is there to give you lots of tasty eye candy and rub her ass on your crotch for money. On the other hand, well... it's her job to "act" like a good salesgirl and get your money by pretending to like you. Is this affection genuine? Yes and no. You CAN bring a girl home from the club, but oftentimes she does not want to look like the club skank that (actually) fucks customers. Usually most guys that are good with strip clubs say to stay for an hour or so. Don't get too pissed when she goes with another guy to give lap dances to. That's how she makes money. I would have chilled til she got back and/or found another girl. It's a good place to practice game though, but beware of spending too much money. You have to budget yourself.

-Chicoman

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i agree because the reason i went to a strip club was to try and hit on them and get rejected (one of style life challenges). thanks for the tip i would definately go there for abit longer next time instead of rushing in thanks man!

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3) Those who make it happen

They are paid to give you IOIs and seem interested, they want your money. The best thing to do would be ignore the IOIs and have a normal conversation with her, make her talk to you as herself, not as a stripper. Still show interest in her, but if she tries to touch you or sit on your lap etc. Just move her away and say something like 'Oh, I'm not in that head space right now.' then continue on talking normally. Get her to qualify herself to you.

Watch season 1, episode 7 of The Pick-up Artist, might give you a few pointers.

thanks man i dont know why but i have this thought that if i can pick up a stripper some how that would definately boost my confidence with girls lol

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3) Those who make it happen

No problem mate. I think it will help with your confidence so definitely give it a go. They have to show interest in the potential customers, so in a way it is easier to get a conversation started with them. Good luck pal, write back and tell us how it goes!

it wont be anytime soon my friend but i will definately give it ago, i only like to do PUA stuff out of town i dont want people in my town knowing im training to be a PUA

will post more FR for every game i do and it will vary...

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Three Types of Players:
1) Those who doesn't know whats happening
2) Those who watch what happens
3) Those who make it happen