| hey guys, I JUST got into a relationship and want advice on how to get what I want. Heres the background:
-since school started, ive been partying every Fri+sat with a crew of about 5 chicks.
-I'm the male, and we all know I am the planner, the creator of the events, the leader of the crew
-I live in a huge dorm room with a living room, mood lights, massive speakers, futon, and all the chicks come to my room to pregame.
-they call me the bad boy
-chicks always see me with other chicks, and they know I used to have a diff girl in bed every night
-my dhv is basically that chicks come in my room and flirt with me all the time, and also, I have a suitcase full of alcohol that I sell out of my dorm room (I'm a freshman), and people area always looking for me, txting me, saying hi to me, yelling my name, when I'm walking with girls
-so basically all the chicks think that I get pussy like mad... and this is where it gets interesting...
one of the girls in my crew, ive gotten her in bed numerous times (HB9), and by in bed, I mean like were nude, giving hickies and shit, foreplay, and me getting head, but NO penis in vagina.
this is because I am still a virgin and I want my first time to be with a hot virgin that I actually like, and I want it to be a completely sober experience..
now, this girl, lets call her betty, betty is a goodie goodie girl. for a girl of her attractiveness, I was surprised, but the farthest shes gone w/a guy is make out. Now, I'm kinda teaching her new things, like playing around, and even giving me head haha.
well eventually, she said she feels bad because she wants to make me happy but she feels like she let me down because we didnt have sex. which turned into her stating something along the lines of... I don't have sex until Im in a relationship. last thursday, we entered a relationship. haha. but the biggest problem was trust. she is crazy about the word "trust". when I told her I was a virgin too, she didnt believe me cause she sees me with so many chicks, and she kept telling me to tell the truth. after talking to the other chicks in my crew, she decided that I have a "virgin fetish". anyway, at 2am one night, I went to her dorm, and she was crying, about me. she didnt know what to do cause she "really liked me" and she doesnt know who to believe. so I held her head, and we just stared at ea other for about 10 seconds, and she said she believes me.
anyhow, were in a relationship now. she likes me, and I like her. shes a big athlete, figure skating, rock climbing, and running. here are my questions:
-due to her athleticism, do you think her hymens broken? cause Id prefer not to see blood...
-how do I transition into sex? every time we've hooked up, we've been drunk
looking forward to your replies,
-secret
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