Hey Guys,

I wanna try and make this post as short as possible - cuz I feel really down at the moment.. For some reason I just can't get out of the house to approach.

So, I have come up with an idea; I am going to set myself a PUA Journey and post on this thread everyday. I am going to start approaching ASAP... TODAY!

I am the guy who sits behind his laptop all day, imagining being able to approach women, learning all the techniques and tips and staying in my comfort zone at home - feeling great and then walking down the street and seeing a hot girl but coming up with a million excuses on why not to approach her.

Guys, I am going to go and have bath put on some fresh clothes and go out and meet some women - but I NEED you guys to keep me motivated and post your thoughts everyday, pretty soon I will also have videos of me approaching and make a website or get onto someone's website ASAP..

I want to be an MPUA, I want this sooooooooo much. I need your help to keep me motivated and anyone else who is looking to do the same as me, let me know and post on this thread.

PS. I will be going out everyday sarging alone for the next 6 months focusing mainly on day game. Once I turn 18 and get a car, I will be focusing on night game

I have a negative reputation SPAM because TheDirectGame accidentally lowered my points I HAVEN'T done anything wrong!

For some reason twisted99 gave me negative points aswell! I don't know why!??

PUA JOURNEY - DAY ONE

OK, so I feel refreshed and energised after going out today..

Had a bath. Put some fresh clothes on. Went out at 7.

Went out for about half an hour 45 minutes - couldn't really go much places because I had a party at 8:30, so there weren't much girls - NONE!

So I basically approached anyone I could, asking for directions or the time and then getting into a little conversations with them.

I also gave a confident smile to everyone I walked past.

That's good, start small. Get used to approaching people with an excuse. Keep it going, you can do it.

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Got up early. About to have a bath. Put on some fresh clothes.

I feel like shit but this is what you have to do if you want to get good!

Am excited for today..

On my way out to town by myself now!

I just made a big post and my connection went - so I am redoing it, a little bit shorter.

I walked to the bus stop. On the way, I stopped a man on his bike and asked for the time and started chatting with him for a little bit. I then approached a lady, asked for the time and started talking to her for a few minutes and we got into a conversation about football!

On my way to the bus stop, I start chatting to a guy (a couple years older then me) - about the derby match today and how shit Liverpool are recently. He is also going to the bus stop, so we are waiting together.

I get to the bus stop and see a solid HB8.. 1,2,3 and I approach but I hesitated prior to doing the 3 second rule. I ask for the time, she looks through her bag for her phone.. Just as I am about to say:

'I'll be honest, I came over here just to flirt with you' - I hesitate! I feel anxiety throughout my body (this has never happened to me before).. it is because I hesitated..

5 minutes later and I see two more HB8's. They are eyeing me up. But, now.. I don't have the balls to go over and talk to them because I hesitated on my first approach. One of the HB8's gets on the same bus as me and keeps on looking at me throughout the journey. But once again, because of my first approach - I feel like shit, because I hesitated - from thinking too much..

I get into town and approach the first girl I see, which just happened to be a cute (HB8) - just outside a starbucks with a load of people watching me!.. She was really cute, outgoing and seemed fun - I start talking to her for a little bit.. BUT prior to approaching her I knew I wouldn't have gone direct because I felt like shit from hesitating and thinking too much.

I stay in town for another hour and make very little approaches. But, I feel much more confident as a person - going out by myself to town.

I will be sticking to this and I WILL be going to town tomorrow - game can be hard or it can be the easiest thing in the world - YOU HAVE JUST GOT TO NOT LET YOUR THOUGHTS GET THE BETTER OF YOU.. and stay relaxed.

Overall I learnt that..

- I should NOT hesitate, always take what I want (relax and 3 second rule)
- Don't think, DO! (relax and 3 second rule)

Quite excited for tomorrow..

congratz man I mean i know its not much for other people but youve taken a hard step but in the right direction

and yeah We were shit today maybe next time your outside Starbucks ( if its the one on bold street facing costa) ask a girl which is better Starbucks or costa ? whatever she says you do the opposite

like this alot dude will be keepin track, fair play to you.

Nice, man! Keep up the good work!

Don't beat yourself up when you hesitate. Just tell yourself that it's ok, that it's cool. Forgive yourself. It will help you avoid feeling like shit. And that will be visible on your outside as well which will automatically make your approaches easier and better.
Ever single approach is experience, no matter how small. Rejections are even worth a lot more experience.

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Just got back from school.

A load of new fit girls were staring at me. Talking about me, saying things like he's hot. This is because of my style change for the winter, I feel much more confident but in school - I can't approach girls I don't know. Can someone help me with this... I go direct and DON'T use any routines.. That's the way I like it.

I am going to grab a bite to eat. Have a bath. Go over my approach a little bit/style - Badboy teaches me.

I am then going to go to either a busy road or town - to do some day game.

Quite excited!

I like sometimes being direct and sometimes first pumping up some attraction before I switch to direct. Let's say I do an environmental opener and then stack a situational DHV. Right after I notice her laughing and giggling, I can easily take her hand and say "You're kinda cute. You're coming with me for a coffee. I want to get to know you better." and then drag her to a nearby cafe. xD

I noticed that this kind of stuff in day-game works like crazy. They don't expect you to do it. When you do it, it's like "OMG OMG OMG" for them. You're Prince Charming. xD

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Just had a bath. And a shave. My clothes and fresh and ready to be worn.

I have decided to go to a busy road. Hopefully on the way there, there will be some cute girls - I don't have money on me for the bus!

...and guys, thanks for all your help so far - it's keeping me so motivated

Got back from day game!..

Walked to a busy street. On the way, there I chatted to - two milfs, a guy, some guys outside the pub smoking which was kind of intimidating to begin with because; he told me to piss off (because he thought I said, 'give us a tab on that ciggy'!) - but told him what I really said and laughed about it with him and left.

I then saw an HB8 across the road and crossed over. I closed her! Can't really remember most of the conversation but she was so shocked that I went direct! She could not stop smiling, at the same time, she was really shocked because it had never happened to her before.

The conversation, went something like this:

ME: (Ran infront of her, with a smile on my face - she had headphones on) Do you know where subway is from here?
HB8: Yeh, bla bla bla bla
ME: Wait, wait - your being too nice I came over here just to flirt with you.
HB8: (smiling and so shocked) waaa!!
ME: I thought you were cute and would have been kicking myself if I didn't come over and say hey....

We do the introduction and shake hands..

HB8: Thankyou (really shocked and happy)
HB8: So you really didn't want to know where subway was, and this isn't a joke???
ME: Really! I thought you were cute. But I can't stay long am meeting a friend.

Talked for a few minutes.. I then said (was a bit wrong) -

ME: Anyways, av gotta go now but am having a party soon.. you should come and invite your friends. (Pass my phone to her and say) Put your number in there..
HB8: Your having a party, for what (still really shocked that I went direct but was extremely happy and clearly made her day!)

ME: (she was hesitant on the number close because this had never happened to her before) - I go for the email but she doesn't have.
HB8: I have facebook, you can add me on that!
ME: Alright, whats your facebook.
HB8: (tells me her full name)
ME: Alright cool, told her my name and said to look out for me - teased her about her accent..
HB8: (giggling)
ME: Anyways, av gotta go, see you later..
HB8: Bye (smiling)

Then I went to get a subway, was on the phone - there was a couple people in the subway store, I come in talking really loud on the phone.. full of confidence, not being quiet like everyone else.

I start talking to the guy behind the counter about, what type of subway he likes and he guessed what I wanted and got it right! Now he knows me (social proof)

Some guy I used to play tennis with came in to subway and we said hey to eachother and whatever.. Was good

Couldn't find any other girls.. Overall good day

LESSON:

- Don't go into the conversation with pre-planned things to say. Observe what she is wearing, whats going on around her, being direct and honest, accent, shoes, people around and improvise a story based on your question.
- Stay relaxed (which I was - could have done it a little better at the beginning but was brilliant!!!!)

I am sooo happy right now and thanks guys for all the support so far.

The good thing with preplanned stuff is that you can use it if you have a mind block. Though, I prefer day-game without preplanned stuff as well. But it's good to have some stuff in mind such as a few short conversation topics. You got her drawn into your reality so much that this wasn't necessary, though.

BTW, next time try to go on an instant date (keep in mind that false time constraint can backfire here). Remember that girls need rapport.

That's the spirit, keep it up! Don't get discouraged if you don't succeed at one point. Just remember that when the bad feelings are gone, you're still awesome, have gained some more experience and next time you'll do better.

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You´ve made some progress so far