Hi!

So, I've been hanging out with this girl that has a boyfriend for almost 2 months. We've been working out together lke 2-3 times a week, and watched films together like 1 time a week. I've slept there a couple of times, without anything happening, other than spooning, afterall she has a boyfriend. We have been out drinking together one time, and we ended up at her place and we made out, in our underwear, but we stopped there.

When she is out with the girls she texts me things like "wish you were here". "you turn me on, you really should've been here" and so on...

So, it is quite obvious that she likes me, but how do I go from here. The night we ended up at her place making out, she explained to me that she was afraid of losing her boyfriend, and that she wanted to make things work with him. She has told me very little about their relationship other than this...

What I wonder is, what to do from now? should I just keep seeing her, doing things together?

And if I do, how to a prevent falling into the friends zone??



Kind regards

nezt

dont think you can possibly fall into the friends zone....you've already established a relationship thats beyond just being friends. i mean it can be established that you guys are just friends but sooner or later something is gonna happend...i would personally just completely ignore what she says and keep doing what you guys are already doing....that or just completely drop her, make her think you're indifferent....that'll throw her off

Keep going. Eventually she'll choose you, or the boyfriend will find you.

Or tell her its wrong, you realise that now. Girls like a bad (you're sleeping with another guy's girl) guy finally controlling himself with his conscience. The threat of losing you will probably yank her off the fence.

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I don't know who he is, or where he is, and it doesn't matter. The only thing he gave me were his eyes.

The usual wisdom here is to act like you don't care about her boyfriend. Act like it's not even an issue, even though it is. If she doesn't respond well to that, freeze her out. The lack of affection will make her miss you, and she will hopefully realize that you're the better choice. Just don't act like you're OK with playing second fiddle. You're not, because you're an alpha male, and you don't have to share a woman who belongs to someone else. She needs to know that you have other options for sex, because it will make you seem desperate if you look like the best you can do is share a woman's time with another man whom she cares about more than she cares about you. It might be a good idea to put some new pictures up on Facebook of you with hot girls. That will boost your value, and show her that she has to deserve you before she can have you.