you dont need to learn openers you have what it takes to open a girl regardless of where your at whats going on if shes in a set or if shes alone reply to this if you think you need to learn a opener

This is half true and half false.

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I completely agree. I dont use pickup lines anymore. You get to a certain point where it just feels stupid to use them. Instead I pay attention, make observations. Instead of thinking "oh she said XX, now i need to say XX, thats how the routine goes", I actually listen to what she has to say.

If you listen, you can have a REAL conversation and actually get somewhere. Ive found that if you do this and get a number, risk of flakiness is pretty much zero.


I know im a newbie here, but dont hold that against me

I agree with this to an extent.

When you first start out openers are like the golden ticket you never had - knowing exactly what to say when you first walk up to a girl - something which is made very hard because of AA - so an opener is that bit of confidence.

When your inner game gets tight the openers do seem to get more natural as you've elevated to the stage of being able to say whatever you want without fear of rejection or being branded a "wierdo" or whatever, so it's not a case of giving a definite no to openers (you always need to open!), it's just letting them become more streamlined and personalised to you and each situation - something you can never practice for!

This is true. Thats why I've never used "pick up lines" and I mean NEVER. My openers are always just to get her attention. Like asking a question or giving a compliment.

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